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Raise your hand if the sight of your partner engrossed in video games drives you up the wall. There’s nothing inherently wrong with gaming—it’s actually provided a much-needed escape for many of us during these times of isolation, right? Whether it’s adults or kids, video games have evolved significantly since the ’90s and can be quite entertaining.
But you know what’s far from entertaining? Being sidelined by a partner who seems glued to their screen. How many times can we ask them to take out the trash or tidy up while they’re fixated on whatever digital sports team they’re pretending to be a superstar for? Many moms are fed up with watching their partners prioritize gaming over their responsibilities—or worse, over them!
During the pandemic, I lost both of my jobs, and my mother was diagnosed with terminal cancer. My partner, however, refuses to budge from his gaming chair. I feel utterly drained and constantly anxious.
Confessions of Frustration
Confessional #101
I dread Fridays because I know he’ll be home for two days, and all he’ll do is play video games or watch YouTube videos about them.
Confessional #102
My partner would rather game than be intimate. I walked in wearing my best lingerie, and he barely glanced before returning to his game. Seriously, is this real life?
Confessional #103
I am beyond frustrated with the endless hours my partner spends gaming!
Confessional #104
It’s as if the house could be on fire, and he’d still be more interested in his PS5.
Confessional #105
I’m juggling working from home, homeschooling our kids, and barely catching four hours of sleep, while he plays video games all day and wonders why I’m not in the mood for intimacy.
Confessional #106
He rarely showers and spends all his time gaming. It’s exhausting.
Confessional #107
My partner wonders why our intimacy has dwindled. Well, he just got to bed after a night of gaming while I’m up at dawn cleaning and cooking.
Confessional #108
Are there really men who stay up until dawn gaming while their partners manage everything else? Not on my watch!
Confessional #109
My husband spends his days fantasizing about intimacy while prioritizing gaming over family responsibilities. It’s disheartening.
Confessional #110
I was hopeful when my partner came home early to help, but instead, he disappeared to the bathroom for an hour—only to find out he was gaming!
Confessional #111
I can’t stand how video games have become his sole hobby, taking away quality family time and leaving me exhausted and unfulfilled.
It’s one thing when work takes precedence, but ignoring family needs for gaming is unacceptable. Sure, everyone deserves downtime, but not at the expense of others.
Confessional #112
I’d love to swap places with my partner for just a day. I could sit back, play video games, and collect unemployment while he manages everything.
Confessional #113
He thinks that because he works, he’s entitled to game non-stop. But he immediately retreats to his chair after meals and doesn’t help around the house.
Confessional #114
It’s been weeks in quarantine, and he hasn’t showered. But he has plenty of time for gaming.
Confessional #115
I’m overwhelmed after bringing our baby home from the NICU. Between that and homeschooling, I need help, not his gaming excuses.
Confessional #116
For three days, I’ve been running around managing household chores while he sits and complains about his games.
Confessional #117
In quarantine, my husband hasn’t checked on me in days while the kids beg him to feed them. It’s heartbreaking.
These stories highlight a growing frustration. It’s crucial for partners to understand the balance between their hobbies and family responsibilities.
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Summary
This article explores the frustrations of partners feeling neglected due to their significant other’s obsession with video games. Many women express their disappointment as gaming takes precedence over family responsibilities and intimacy. The narratives highlight the need for balance between personal hobbies and the demands of family life.