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The first time I encountered a candid discussion about squirting was during a performance of The Vagina Monologues. A woman shared her experience of having her first orgasm with a partner, and her vivid description of fluid “gushing and gushing” out of her body surprised and frightened her, as she had no idea what was happening. Her partner, equally clueless, left the scene and later told others she had urinated herself. This misunderstanding haunted her for years, leading to a five-year hiatus from experiencing orgasms.
You might have seen squirting depicted in adult films or even experienced it yourself. Regardless of your familiarity with it, there is still a significant amount of confusion surrounding squirting and female ejaculation. The lack of open dialogue can lead to feelings of awkwardness or misunderstanding.
Understanding the Myths
One prevalent myth is that squirting and female ejaculation are the same thing, but they are not. Before we delve into the details, it’s important to recognize that just as some people can wink or curl their tongues, some can squirt while others cannot. Both are completely normal experiences. If you are someone who squirts and your partner is uncomfortable with it, it might be time to reconsider that relationship.
Insights from Experts
In a conversation with Jessica Lee, Editor-In-Chief of Women’s Health Insights, the distinctions were made clear. Female ejaculate is produced by the Skene’s glands, located near the urethra. This milky fluid is released during orgasm, whether from a partner or through self-stimulation. However, the act of squirting involves fluid expelled from the urethra, which may lead to confusion since both occur in close proximity.
Lee explains, “The Skene’s secretions are a milky fluid that’s released independently of squirt but often WITH it, in those who can do this.” So, when someone who can squirt does so, they are often simultaneously ejaculating, complicating the understanding further. Essentially, the two fluids—female ejaculate from the Skene’s glands and urine from the bladder—are released at the same time. Squirting can vary in color, and notably, is primarily composed of urine, not just traces.
Research from the National Library of Medicine supports this by highlighting that squirting is essentially the involuntary release of urine during sexual activity. In summary, when someone squirts during orgasm, they are both ejaculating and urinating.
Enhancing the Experience
Most individuals who squirt—and their partners—report that it enhances their sexual experiences and is pleasurable. So, if you are among those who can squirt, keep some towels handy and enjoy the journey.
Further Reading
For more information on related topics, check out our other blog posts, like this one at Intracervical Insemination, or explore resources from Make a Mom for insights on home insemination. You could also learn about the IVF process at this excellent resource.
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Summary:
This article clarifies the differences between squirting and female ejaculation, addressing common misconceptions and emphasizing that both experiences are normal. It highlights that squirting involves the release of urine and the potential presence of female ejaculate, and encourages open conversations about these topics to reduce confusion and enhance sexual experiences.