Why I Take Great Pride in Being a Teacher’s Spouse

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My husband teaches at a mid-sized school in the southern United States, where he encounters a diverse range of students. From affluent to less fortunate backgrounds, each child brings unique stories and experiences to the classroom. Recently, he returned to school after a break, and on the night before his first day back, our kids and I felt downcast. He reassured us, saying, “Don’t be upset. I’m thrilled to be back with my students. I’ve missed them.” Hearing that nearly brought me to tears because this is who he is: a dedicated teacher. He transitioned from university teaching to high school because he wanted to connect more deeply with his students, often having the same kids for three or four years, which truly fulfills him.

Unfortunately, teachers have faced a lot of criticism recently, branded as lazy or accused of indoctrinating students with concepts like “critical race theory.” However, the reality is that many teachers are genuinely dedicated to their students. They work tirelessly, often late into the night, because they care deeply about the well-being and education of your children.

He Treats His Students with Respect

My husband often expresses frustration over how some adults fail to view teenagers as real people. He is committed to treating his students as individuals with their own thoughts and feelings, understanding that their outbursts are often reflections of deeper issues. His patience can sometimes leave little for our family at the end of a long day, but I admire how he brings that same understanding home. He recognizes that when one of our children is upset, it’s usually not about us, but rather something they are grappling with internally.

His Classroom is a Safe Haven

His classroom reflects his caring nature, adorned with posters ranging from Shakespeare to Harry Potter, alongside motivational quotes. Before the pandemic, he created a cozy corner with bean bags and blankets where students could unwind when needed. This simple act demonstrated his commitment to their emotional comfort. His desk is filled with personal mementos—photos of our family and even some of his students’ artwork, which fosters connections and conversations.

He also has a playful side. His hall passes, which sometimes require students to carry around a plastic squid, bring laughter into their day, a welcome relief in the sometimes harsh landscape of high school life.

He Looks Out for His Students

My husband is the kind of teacher who pays attention to the little things. He knows when students are going through tough times, whether it be a breakup or struggles in other subjects. He is there for them, offering a listening ear or help when they need it most. He takes the time to connect with those who feel isolated, sharing books that align with their interests, whether they are into anime, fishing, or sports.

I am especially proud of how he supports his LGBTQIA students. In a school that can be less accepting, he never misgenders or deadnames students, creating a safe space where all identities are respected. His classroom proudly displays a rainbow flag, and he ensures that his students feel valued and accepted.

Moreover, he understands that some of his students may not have consistent meals at home. He discreetly stocks snacks in his classroom, ensuring that those who come to school hungry have something to eat without drawing attention to their situation. His concern for their well-being extends beyond academics—he is genuinely invested in their lives.

Great Teachers Are Everywhere

As I describe my husband, I realize that he is a representation of countless fantastic educators out there. These are the teachers who sacrifice their time and energy to make a difference in the lives of their students. They are dedicated to helping kids navigate their challenges, offering a shoulder to cry on or simply a safe space to be themselves.

As the school year begins, let’s remember the hard work these teachers put in. They are not trying to indoctrinate your children; they are devoted to teaching and nurturing them. When my husband shared that he had taught a student how to tie a necktie, it struck me just how significant these small moments are. Teachers like him are everywhere, from principals to coaches, all striving to help kids grow into their best selves.

Please don’t lump all teachers together. Appreciate their commitment and understand that many are genuinely excited to see your child thrive. They don’t just have jobs; they have callings.

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In summary, being a teacher’s spouse fills me with immense pride. My husband’s dedication to his students, his thoughtful classroom environment, and his genuine care for their well-being exemplify the incredible impact teachers have on young lives. As we move forward into a new school year, let’s recognize and appreciate the hard work and heart that goes into teaching.