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This week’s dilemma: What should you do when you feel envious of your childfree friends?
Dear Home Insemination Kit,
I’m a 28-year-old mom to a delightful one-year-old daughter. I was the first in my friend circle to become a parent, and as a single mom with my family living an hour away, finding babysitters—especially during a pandemic—is tough. Meanwhile, my friends are still single and enjoy going out every weekend. I know they care about me and love my little one, but seeing their fun outings on social media without me stings. I made the choice to become a mom and wouldn’t change it, but I miss the carefree times we had together. They never seem to invite me along, which I understand, but it really hurts. How can I cope with this?
Adjusting to motherhood can be incredibly challenging, especially when it feels like you’re giving up a part of your past life. Your feelings of exclusion and jealousy are completely valid—who wouldn’t feel that way? You’ve entered a new chapter that requires a lot of selflessness, and it’s normal to long for the days when you could enjoy spontaneous outings with friends.
While it’s true that becoming a parent doesn’t mean you should lose your identity, your young child is highly dependent on you, and that’s something your friends may not fully grasp. However, it’s a bit disappointing that none of your friends have offered to babysit while you grab a quick drink or lunch. If you feel comfortable, why not ask one of them to help? They might just need a gentle nudge to realize that it’s an option.
Additionally, consider reaching out to local colleges or daycare centers for early childhood education students who might be looking for babysitting gigs. Many communities have websites that offer vetted caregivers, so you can find someone reliable to help you. It’s also perfectly reasonable to request that any babysitter be vaccinated for your peace of mind.
You might not have a large support system, but even having one trustworthy person can make a world of difference. I hope you find someone who can help ease your FOMO and allow you some much-needed time for yourself.
If you’re looking for more insights, check out this other blog post or visit CryoBaby’s At-Home Insemination Kit for expert guidance. Also, March of Dimes offers great resources for pregnancy and home insemination.
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Summary:
This advice column addresses the feelings of a 28-year-old single mom who feels left out by her childfree friends. She expresses her longing for her previous lifestyle and the pain of not being invited to outings. The response emphasizes the transition to motherhood, suggests asking friends for help, and recommends finding local babysitters. The article offers additional resources for support and guidance on parenting.