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To know me is to know that I’m not just an entertainment writer; I’m also a proud single mom. I wear that identity like a badge of honor. What’s the alternative? A life filled with despair? Crying all day? Absolutely not!
After nine years of single parenthood, I’ve learned to persevere. But despite what others may think, I don’t want to be a single mom forever. Sure, women can be independent and may not need a partner, but honestly, I want one! I’d prefer married life or at least a committed relationship—anything but this solo journey.
After watching Netflix’s “The Chair,” featuring the fabulous Sandra Oh, I was reminded of why I crave companionship. The series follows Dr. Ji-Yoon Kim (Sandra Oh) as she takes on the role of Chair of the English department at Pembroke University. She faces unique challenges, being the first woman to lead the department and one of the few staff members of color. A significant hurdle? Juggling single motherhood with her career.
Watching Ji-Yoon struggle to balance her responsibilities reminded me how tough single parenting can be. Finding reliable babysitters can feel impossible! Kids can have bad days at school or fall ill, and as a parent, you must rush from work to help them. It’s exhausting, especially when you’re constantly reminded of that Beyoncé song, “me, myself and I is all I got.”
And as my parents age, their ability to assist diminishes. I’ve had to double-check my daughter’s homework because of their “help.” It’s draining. None of these challenges are life-threatening, but they require finesse to manage. As a single mom, chaos becomes the norm, and the thought of an easier life seems like a distant dream.
In episode 4 of “The Chair,” Ji-Yoon gets a glimpse of the help I long for when her colleague and love interest, Alex, takes a day off to babysit her daughter. Not only did he care for her for free, but he also tidied up the house and prepared dinner. It was a stark reminder of why I can’t stay single forever. I love my daughter and being her everything, but I also crave support.
Just once, I’d love to come home to a hot meal waiting for me. I remember the days when my daughter would need me to tuck her in; I often found myself falling asleep beside her, waking up frustrated that I hadn’t completed my chores. The blessing of knowing your child is safe in the hands of someone you trust instead of a random babysitter is invaluable.
So yes, I don’t want to be a single mom for life. With many women embracing singlehood, I want to remind everyone that I’m not one of them. I dream of a partnership where I don’t carry all the responsibilities alone and where I can enjoy a moment of peace, knowing that when I’m unwell, I won’t have to struggle through it all by myself.
While “The Chair” may not be the most thrilling drama on Netflix, it resonates deeply with single parents like me. As the season concludes, there’s a glimmer of hope that things can improve—something we all need to hear.
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In summary, while being a single mom can be rewarding, the desire for companionship and support is strong. As highlighted in “The Chair,” the challenges of single parenting can feel overwhelming. A partnership can provide the help and balance that many single parents crave.