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“Hey! Look at that car! It’s just like yours but black!” my kids exclaimed, pointing at a shiny minivan that was the same make and model as mine. It gleamed in the sunlight, likely because it still had its hubcaps intact—mine seem to have mysteriously vanished over time, like little rebels escaping their mundane lives. Perhaps it was also the absence of mouse droppings on the floor or the lack of Goldfish crumbs and candy wrappers cluttering the cup holders. Or maybe that minivan just had a better talent for concealing the utter chaos that lurks within. Let’s face it: minivans are essentially rolling dumpsters, with varying levels of messiness ranging from “not too shabby” to “what on earth is that smell?”
When I asked my friend Lisa to send a picture of her minivan’s interior, she responded with a text that said, “Oh good grief! I make anyone who rides in my van sign NDAs! There’s no way I’m sharing that disaster!”
The only time I’ve ever seen a minivan that looked clean was when it was parked in a dealership showroom. Yet even then, the window stickers hinted at a grim future, one where unicorn and superhero decals would soon cover the glass after countless trips to the doctor and dentist.
When you get a minivan, your standards for cleanliness shift dramatically—likely a reflection of how parenting expectations change as your family grows. Sure, you might find a few two-child families with minivans, but most folks I know who have transitioned from sedans to minivans or SUVs did so to fit at least three kids comfortably and safely. And by “comfortably and safely,” I mean “far enough apart to minimize bickering and touching,” so you don’t lose your sanity while driving your precious cargo to various activities. Partitions between rows would be a dream, but they’d need snack doors too, because not even soundproof walls can mute the cries for food during the seven-minute ride to a playdate.
I bought my minivan when my partner was pregnant with twins, as we were about to go from one child to three. But no one prepared us for the realities of minivan life beyond just fitting three car seats in the back.
The van quickly transformed into a mobile command center, where the person in the passenger seat assumed the role of director. The ability to crawl from the front to the back to hand out snacks, fix a DVD player, or comfort a carsick child became both a blessing and a curse. As the kids grew, the snacks turned into backpacks filled with toys and tablets, replacing DVDs that would skip or malfunction due to someone tripping over the cord. But as their independence grew, so did the amount of stuff they brought into the van—diaper bags, portable toilets, Pack ‘n Plays, and strollers soon claimed every available inch of space.
Now, my kids’ toys, books, homework, sports gear, sticks, rocks, and even trash seem to have made permanent homes under seats, on the floor, and in the trunk—the trunk that also holds Costco hauls and serves as a makeshift changing room when another child decides to change clothes in the middle of the van. Whether it’s a quick change from school clothes to soccer gear or finding a clean pair of shorts for a child who experimented with puddles, minivan life is about navigating the chaos of a busy family.
Rachel, a mom of three from Oregon, shared with us that before her recent deep clean, her minivan was home to “football gear, craft supplies, Cub Scout uniforms, an overflowing trash can, and a variety of jackets, hats, and spare shoes. We could practically live in there!”
Meanwhile, Alex, a single mom of one, bought a quirky minivan during the COVID lockdown as a getaway vehicle. “It has a tropical headliner and a wooden box that unfolds into a bed in the back,” she told us. Although they’ve only used it for sleeping once, she says it’s perfect for movie nights at the drive-in. “We call it our ‘adventure van,’ but it’s definitely a miracle if it passes inspection.”
The minivan is like our vacation home or second dwelling on wheels. It serves multiple purposes: a space for listening to podcasts while running errands, a nap zone while waiting for kids to finish soccer practice, and even a mobile office. I’ve taken calls from my van, awkwardly balancing my laptop against the steering wheel while trying to catch WiFi from a nearby coffee shop to send urgent emails.
I have no shame about the chaos or the lack of luster associated with my vehicle. While I might wish I could identify the source of the persistent low-grade odor that resides in my minivan, I am genuinely grateful for this extension of space that makes our busy lives a bit easier, even amidst the mess. You can try to live by the motto that what happens in the minivan stays there, but just wait until a doll’s head rolls out when your child exits for school. So let’s embrace the absurdity and normalize the real-life experience of minivan ownership.
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Summary
The minivan often serves as a chaotic sanctuary for families, transforming into a mobile hub filled with snacks, toys, and the remnants of daily life. From accommodating multiple children to functioning as a workspace, it embodies the messiness of parenting, proving that while organization may be ideal, survival is the true goal.