9 Valuable Life Lessons My Kids Gained from Watching ‘The Bachelor’ Together

On a chilly evening back in January 2018, my twins, Jake and Mia, nearly 8 years old, nestled on the couch beside me as the iconic host announced the 22nd season of “The Bachelor” featuring Arie Luyendyk Jr.

Me: “Alright, kiddos, it’s time for bed. My show is on.”
Them in Unison: “Wait… a race car driver? Is he really going out with all those ladies? Popcorn, please!”

Thus began our delightful journey into the world of Bachelor Nation. My husband was not nearly as enthusiastic. He voiced his disapproval, deeming the show “absolute rubbish.” “What on earth, Jamie?” he’d exclaim, clearly uncomfortable with my parenting choice.

However, I felt differently. Why deny my kids the joy they found in this reality dating show? I made sure to protect them from inappropriate content with some parental controls. Their tiny hands served as “kissing blockers” during the steamy moments, while I kept my thumb poised over the fast-forward button for anything too risqué.

Beyond the show’s typical drama, I discovered deeper lessons about human connection embedded in the storyline. My kids were completely engrossed, eagerly predicting who would get the one-on-one dates, who would leave heartbroken, and who would make it to the hometown visits. They became more knowledgeable about the cast than I was!

“The Bachelor” franchise offered us an engaging way to discuss important topics that I believe will guide them toward becoming kind individuals, friends, and partners in the future. Here are the key lessons we extracted:

1. Embrace Authenticity

The show illustrates the importance of being yourself. Authenticity attracts genuine friendships and, potentially, your perfect match.

2. Take Heartfelt Risks

As contestants step out of the limo each season, they show us how to embrace new experiences and stand out. Don’t be afraid to have fun and laugh at yourself!

3. Love is an Adventure

While it may sound cliché, love can blossom in unexpected ways—through chance encounters, rekindled friendships, or even reality TV! Keep your heart open.

4. Don’t Settle for Less

Just because someone professes their love doesn’t mean they are your only option. Meaningful relationships take time and mutual respect.

5. Recognize Red Flags

Phrases like “Nobody will love you like I do” should raise alarms. Remember, a healthy relationship thrives when both individuals are content within themselves.

6. Drink Responsibly

Those who overindulge often appear foolish, especially on television. When it’s your turn to drink, do so in moderation.

7. Avoid Being a Tattletale

Nobody appreciates a snitch. Keep the gossip to a minimum!

8. Don’t Be a Jerk

Kindness goes a long way; being rude is universally disliked.

9. Value Your Mom

She’s allowing you to watch this show instead of something more age-appropriate, and let’s be honest, you’ll want her on her best behavior for that hometown visit!

As my children grow and eventually leave home, I will cherish the moments spent watching “The Bachelor” together, filled with laughter and insightful discussions about relationships. No shame here! I hope these lessons instill in them the courage to be open, vulnerable, and to seek meaningful connections as they navigate their own paths to love.

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In summary, watching “The Bachelor” has provided my kids with valuable lessons about love, relationships, and self-awareness, all wrapped in a fun viewing experience that I will always treasure.