Parenting
The Impact of Media Violence on Kids
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By: Jamie Taylor
Updated: November 12, 2021
Originally Published: November 12, 2021
Recently, my partner and I discovered that our daughter had been exposed to significant violence in media without our awareness. We were watching the popular series “Squid Game” when our daughter came downstairs for a drink after her bedtime. We paused the show, and she recognized it instantly, saying, “Oh, you’re watching ‘Squid Game?’”
My husband and I exchanged shocked glances, realizing that our seven-year-old had somehow learned about this brutal series, despite us never watching it in her presence. When we asked her where she had heard about it, she mentioned that a friend on her bus had been playing a Roblox game inspired by the show.
While Roblox can offer engaging games for children, it also hosts some violent content. Research indicates that while media violence does not directly make a child violent, it can be a contributing factor. Some experts draw parallels between the relationship between smoking and lung cancer to illustrate this. Just as not everyone who smokes develops lung cancer, not every child exposed to media violence will become aggressive, but it can increase the likelihood of such outcomes.
The impact of media violence extends beyond modeling aggressive behavior. Younger children often struggle to distinguish between reality and fiction. Michelle Garrison, a researcher at the Seattle Children’s Research Institute, explains, “For toddlers and preschoolers, violent imagery can feel immediate and real, leading to fears about their safety.” Their studies indicate that even cartoon violence can lead to increased sleep disturbances in young children, suggesting that there is no such thing as “safe media violence” for this age group.
A recent study found that exposure to violent media can heighten risks for aggressive behavior, thoughts, and emotions while diminishing empathy and social skills. Researchers argue that the simplistic portrayal of good versus evil in media can distort children’s perceptions of the real world. Garrison points out that if a child views themselves as the “hero,” they might see anyone who disagrees with them as the “villain,” thus limiting their ability to understand different perspectives or find compromises.
Characters like Marvel superheroes often perpetuate this narrative, as their violence is typically directed at “bad guys.” Parents might find it easy to justify these actions to children, but many kids lack the cognitive and emotional maturity to grasp this distinction.
Despite differing opinions, some experts criticize studies that downplay the effects of media violence. For instance, Christopher Ferguson from Stetson University argues that while children may mimic violent actions in play, it doesn’t necessarily predict future violent behavior. In contrast, Dan Romer from the University of Pennsylvania believes that Ferguson’s perspective oversimplifies the complex interactions between media and behavior.
Given the omnipresence of violence on streaming platforms today, it’s unrealistic to shield children completely. However, parents can take steps to minimize exposure. Checking TV and video game ratings is a good start. Parents who engage with their children’s media choices can foster discussions about right and wrong and bond over shared interests.
Setting rules about device usage, such as allowing screen time only in common areas, can help maintain supervision. While children may prefer private spaces, unrestricted access to devices can lead to more exposure to inappropriate content. Keeping screens out of bedrooms preserves a peaceful environment and ensures it remains a sanctuary free from violent media.
If children exhibit signs of obsession or extreme reactions related to screen time, this could indicate the need for increased supervision or even professional help.
Despite our best efforts, it’s likely that children will encounter violent media. Parents should view these moments as opportunities to talk about the real-life implications of violence and promote healthy responses.
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Summary
Understanding the effects of media violence on children is crucial for parents today. Research suggests that exposure to such content can influence children’s behavior, emotional development, and social skills. Implementing strategies to monitor and discuss media consumption can help mitigate these effects. Parents should be proactive in creating a safe environment while fostering discussions about the implications of violence in media.