What NOT to Gift Your Child's Teacher This Holiday Season

As the holiday season approaches, many parents find themselves stressed about selecting the perfect gift for their child’s teacher. Often, they turn to friends for suggestions, leading to a mix of ideas that can range from inappropriate to downright bizarre. Having been a teacher myself and maintaining friendships with many educators, I’ve seen my share of odd — and sometimes unappealing — gifts. While teachers are gracious and typically appreciate whatever they receive, deep down, they often prefer gift cards.

Here’s a list of items your child’s teacher likely doesn’t want this holiday season, along with reasons why gift cards are truly the best option.

Candles

Let’s be honest: how many candles can one person realistically use? While they can be nice, not everyone enjoys the smell of every scent, from evergreen to peculiar mixes like chocolate-strawberry. Choosing a candle is akin to selecting jewelry. If you’re not absolutely sure about their favorite brand or scent, it’s best to avoid candles altogether. Trust me, your child’s teacher probably has a shelf full of candles they don’t use.

Body Products

Similar to candles, body care items are a risky choice. Everyone has their own preferred brands and scents, and many people deal with allergies or sensitivities. Unfortunately, like candles, body products often end up unused.

MLM Products

Please, for the love of holiday cheer, don’t attempt to use your child’s teacher as a potential customer for your multi-level marketing (MLM) products. Teachers don’t want your essential oils, protein shakes, or any other MLM items. Including your business card with a push for them to join your venture is simply inappropriate.

Homemade Foods

While the intention behind homemade treats is commendable, many teachers might feel uneasy about consuming food made by someone they don’t know well. There are too many uncertainties, especially regarding hygiene. In light of health concerns, particularly post-COVID, it’s best to steer clear of homemade goodies.

Apple-themed Gifts

Sure, apples are cute, but they’re not a teacher’s ultimate joy. Items like apple-themed mugs or apple earrings are not necessary. Let’s retire the apple motif when it comes to teacher gifts.

Home Décor

I once received fragile home décor that was challenging to transport and didn’t suit my taste. When teachers are at home, they want to relax, not be reminded of gifts chosen by a parent. Unless you are entirely sure the teacher would appreciate a specific item, it’s best to avoid home décor altogether.

You might think, “It’s the thought that counts,” and while that holds some truth, if you’re spending money on a gift, make sure it’s something the teacher can genuinely use and enjoy. Teachers often spend their own money on classroom supplies, so a gift card allows them the freedom to choose what they need for themselves or their students.

Instead of splurging on something uncertain, encourage your child to write a heartfelt card expressing gratitude and what they’ve learned. This personal touch is far more significant than another “World’s Best Teacher” mug. One teacher friend mentioned that a nice set of pens is always appreciated, as schools often provide low-quality writing instruments.

Some parents may feel that giving a gift card lacks a personal touch, but it is a practical and universal gift that avoids waste. So before you consider baking cookies or finding monogrammed coasters, think about giving a simple, yet thoughtful gift card this holiday season.

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In summary, when selecting a holiday gift for your child’s teacher, it’s essential to consider their preferences and needs. Avoid common pitfalls like candles, body products, and MLM items, and instead, opt for a gift card or a thoughtful note from your child.

What NOT to Gift Your Child’s Teacher This Holiday Season