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If that big brown truck is showing up at your doorstep daily, it might be time for some self-reflection.
When a global crisis took over our lives a couple of years back, fear became a common thread. We were anxious—so much so that handling the mail required gloves. In such uncertain times, people often seek comfort, leading to changes in habits. From brewing overly complicated coffee to indulging in food or excessive shopping, many turned to retail therapy as a means of coping. In fact, online shopping surged by 32% in 2020. Perhaps you found solace in browsing Target collaborations, purchasing an array of wireless bras for your new work-from-home lifestyle, or decorating your space with charming knick-knacks. As the hours dragged on, shopping provided a sense of normalcy that made it feel acceptable, even enjoyable. However, some of us may have crossed the line into problematic shopping, where buying becomes a means to escape rather than fulfill a need.
Now that life is (somewhat) returning to normal, justifying those many purchases has become a challenge. The estimated 5.2% of Americans who engage in compulsive shopping often experience buyer’s remorse that can rival the aftermath of a night out with too much wine. Parents, in particular, are susceptible to overspending as they try to keep up with their children’s constant needs. A quick visit to the Boden website for new T-shirts in 5T can easily spiral into a shopping spree for yourself. The instinct to be prepared can transform impulsive purchases into seemingly practical decisions—like stocking up on sweatshirts or winter gear.
Recognizing Problematic Shopping
Problematic shopping manifests in various ways. You might be a “compulsive shopper” who buys to alleviate stress, a “Collector” who feels compelled to own items in every color, a “Bargain Seeker” who buys purely for the thrill of a sale, or a “Bulimic Shopper” who overspends only to return everything later. If any of this resonates with you, consider these signs that your shopping habits may be out of control:
- Overspending: If your shopping habits are harming your finances, particularly if you’re spending on non-essential items, it’s time for a closer examination. This doesn’t apply to necessities but if you’re starting to use mortgage money for luxuries, that’s a red flag.
- Hiding Purchases: If you find yourself concealing boxes or having deliveries sent to friends, you may be in problematic territory. If you’re shifting funds or using payment methods to disguise the full cost, it’s time for reflection.
- Compulsive Shopping Cycle: This includes the stages of anticipation, preparation, shopping, and the inevitable guilt that follows. Regularly experiencing this roller coaster might indicate a deeper issue.
- Relationship Tension: If your spending creates discomfort or conflict with your partner, it’s essential to assess if these purchases are worth the potential strain on your relationship.
- Buying Unused Items: If your purchases are driven by anxiety—like fear of missing out or a belief that an item will complete your life—it’s a sign you may be buying for a version of yourself that doesn’t exist.
- Feelings of Guilt or Shame: If shopping brings you more negative feelings than joy, it’s time to seek help. Whether through therapy, support groups, or cognitive behavioral strategies, addressing the underlying feelings can be invaluable.
The first step in overcoming problematic shopping is to reflect on your purchases—often, they fail to deliver the satisfaction you hoped for. Before hitting that checkout button, think about the disappointment that may arrive in a box at your doorstep. That realization could be your starting point for change.
Additional Resources
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