The Five Essential Aspects I Desire for My Children in Elementary School

As a parent deeply invested in my children’s education, I understand that our living situation, budget, and daily routines are often shaped by our commitment to their future. While my children generally thrive in their school environment, thanks to dedicated teachers and administrators, there are several key areas I would enhance to ensure their elementary education is both fulfilling and enjoyable.

1. Daily Recess for All Students

In the context of a six-hour school day, my children, who are in fifth and second grades, receive limited recess time, even compared to other schools in Florida. Due to state mandates and the focus on preparing for standardized tests, schools often struggle to incorporate breaks like recess. It’s disheartening to see children with only about 20 minutes for lunch in a controlled atmosphere. If school days cannot include time for children to play and interact, we are neglecting a vital component of their development. Without playgrounds in middle school, elementary is a crucial time for kids to engage in free play and creativity.

2. Reduced High-Stakes Standardized Testing

The prevalence of standardized testing in Florida places undue stress on students. My children spend considerable time preparing for these tests, especially in third grade, where failing can result in having to repeat the year. The pressure they face leads to anxiety, affecting their self-esteem and love for learning. While some assessment is necessary for accountability, testing should not dominate the educational experience. It is essential to minimize testing to allow more time for meaningful instruction and creative engagement in the classroom.

3. Less Homework

I view school as my children’s job and expect them to focus during class hours. However, once the school day ends, I believe their time should be free for play, extracurricular activities, and family interactions. Homework often feels like an extension of their school day, leaving little room for relaxation or exploration. Assigning concise and meaningful homework, if any, can ensure that our time together is more about connection rather than completing assignments.

4. Increased Focus on the Arts

While I appreciate the emphasis on STEM education, I believe the arts are equally important. My children have a passion for math and science, but art, music, and dance enrich our lives and foster creativity. I wish for more opportunities in their curriculum to explore artistic expression, which is crucial for their holistic development. Writing instruction should encourage imaginative storytelling rather than merely adhering to standardized formats.

5. Cultivating Joy in Education

Joy should be an integral part of the school experience. I recently saw a delightful video of a teacher dancing with students, highlighting the potential for fun in education. Schools should be vibrant places filled with laughter and excitement. I want my children to return home sharing stories of their day filled with joy and curiosity, rather than recounting the stress of missed recess or endless testing.

In conclusion, childhood is a precious phase in life, and school should be a space that nurtures wonder, laughter, and joy. If we do not foster a love for learning during these formative years, we may hinder their ability to navigate the challenges of later schooling. For more insights on parenting and education, feel free to explore our other blog posts, such as this one on home insemination. Additionally, for more information on the home insemination journey, visit Make A Mom. For those interested in pregnancy resources, consider checking out Women’s Health.