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The Maternal Perspectives in ‘Making A Murderer’
In recent days, the Netflix documentary series Making A Murderer has captured widespread attention, prompting discussions across social media platforms. Many viewers, including myself, were initially hesitant to dive in, but were eventually compelled by family—specifically, my college-aged daughter, who suggested we watch it together during her winter break. When a college student invites you to share an activity, it’s an opportunity not to be missed. Thus began our binge-watching session, which quickly became engrossing.
Residing in Minnesota, we found that the local Midwestern nuances added a unique layer to our viewing experience. For those familiar with regions such as Minnesota, Michigan, or Wisconsin, the characters of the Avery family may resonate. I was surprised to learn that subtitles had been provided, which I hadn’t noticed until a friend mentioned it. The quirky elements of the Midwest in the 1990s, from hairstyles to decor, initially amused us, but soon the narrative took center stage.
The series centers on Steven Avery, who was wrongfully convicted of sexual assault and attempted murder in 1985, spending 18 years incarcerated before DNA evidence exonerated him. Although Avery had his own legal troubles, the inconsistencies in his case were glaring. After his release, he became embroiled again in controversy when he was accused of murdering photographer Teresa Halbach. For those who have yet to watch, I won’t delve further into the plot—it’s best experienced firsthand.
As a mother of nearly 22 years, my perspective on the series was inevitably shaped by my own experiences. My heart particularly went out to Dolores Avery, Steven’s mother, who poignantly described her determination to visit him in prison despite challenging weather conditions. Her unwavering love illustrates the lengths a parent will go to for their child, even when faced with treacherous winter roads.
Another mother who resonated with me was Barbara, the mother of Brendan, a teenager involved in the investigation of Halbach’s murder. Their recorded conversations reveal a profound emotional connection, especially when Barbara reassures her son with the heartfelt words, “You’re not stupid to me.” For any parent who has comforted a child struggling with self-doubt, this sentiment strikes a deep chord.
The experiences of these mothers shed light on the complexities of parenting in difficult circumstances. From Dolores’s visits to prison, to Barbara’s emotional breakdown amid media scrutiny, and the silent suffering of Teresa Halbach’s mother, each story highlights the unimaginable challenges faced by these women. The series prompts reflection on the various resources and opportunities available to parents, influenced by factors like education, socioeconomic status, and genetics, which ultimately shape the lives of their children.
The narrative unfolds chaotically, akin to a fitted sheet tumbling out of a linen closet—a frustrating yet compelling journey. If you haven’t yet engaged with this gripping documentary, I highly recommend doing so. It promises to evoke a range of emotions, challenging your perspective on both justice and family dynamics.
After watching, I found myself viewing the typical teenage messes in my own home with a renewed sense of perspective, and yes, I made sure to hug my children as tightly as I could.
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