Experiencing Childhood Favorites Through Your Children’s Perspective

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Movies have always held a special place in my heart, and the dream of enjoying films together as a family finally seemed attainable. My husband, Mark, had long envisioned sharing his cherished ’80s classics with our three daughters ever since they first encountered a character named Caillou. “Do we have to watch that whiny kid again?” I chuckled, dismissing his enthusiasm as premature.

As our girls progressed into watching shows like Jessie and iCarly, Mark declared the time was right. “I’m going to introduce them to some real movies, starting with Star Wars!” he proclaimed, expecting my excitement to mirror his own.

“I’m not sure they’re ready for that yet,” I replied, struggling to recall the intricacies of those films.

“What about The Goonies?” he suggested.

I scoffed, “No way, that won’t hold up to their standards.”

“Goonies? It’s a classic! They’ll love it!” He couldn’t resist throwing in a playful “Baby Ruth” impression, channeling Sloth.

Deciding to embrace the experience, we gathered the girls and informed them we would be watching a movie from our childhood.

Finley, our 6-year-old, looked shocked. “You mean you had TVs for movies back then?”

“Very funny. Yes, we had TVs, and this film is called The Goonies. Trust me, your dad loved it. You will too,” I assured them.

Our middle daughter, Ava, shared a skeptical eye-roll with me.

As the movie began, the bubbly title appeared on-screen, prompting the girls to say it together: “Goonies.” “What even is a goonie?” they inquired.

“A goonie is someone who doesn’t quite fit in,” Mark explained.

“Were you a Goonie, Dad? Did you not fit in?” Finley asked, rubbing his shoulder sympathetically.

“No, I wasn’t a Goonie. Just watch,” he replied, a mix of annoyance and excitement evident in his tone.

I stifled laughter as Josh Brolin appeared, clad in a full sweatsuit and sweatband.

“Why is he dressed like that? Did he have surgery and regular clothes hurt him now?” Finley asked.

After about thirty minutes of polite watching, Mark turned to me with a hopeful grin. “See? They like it. Right, girls? You like it?”

Silence followed.

“It’s good, right?” he pressed, trying to gauge their interest.

Three sets of blue eyes shifted between us. “Actually, Dad, it isn’t very good. It’s kind of boring,” they concluded.

“It’s okay, girls,” I intervened. “Why don’t you go jump on the trampoline?”

“Sorry, Dad. We prefer movies that aren’t from the olden days. But you can keep watching,” they replied, bolting out the door.

Weeks later, we gave it another shot with the classic Back to the Future. We ordered it on demand, popped popcorn, and settled in on the couch.

“What does ‘Back to the Future’ mean? Shouldn’t it be ‘To the Future’ or ‘Back in Time’? You can’t go back to the future can you?” asked our eldest, Mia.

Mark took a deep breath. “Can we just watch the movie, girls?”

This time, their agitation transformed into intrigue. They adored Marty McFly, and the high school storyline captivated them. I didn’t recall the film having so much edgy language, but considering I’d already let them watch Pitch Perfect, I figured they could handle it.

Mark’s delight was evident as he grinned several times throughout the film. After finishing the Back to the Future trilogy, the girls eagerly requested more films from “the Olden Days.” We seized the opportunity to purchase the Star Wars trilogy during Blockbuster’s closing sale. They devoured Star Wars and The Empire Strikes Back in one sitting. When Mark left for work, they excitedly watched Return of the Jedi without him, a bittersweet moment for him.

This experience of connecting the dots between our childhood favorites and our children’s enjoyment is truly special. While we may never share the same childhood experiences, allowing them a glimpse into our past feels like a magical playdate.

Perhaps it’s time to introduce them to Can’t Buy Me Love next…

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Summary:

Sharing beloved childhood films with your children can be a rewarding yet challenging experience. While initial attempts may not always resonate with the younger generation, persistence can lead to unexpected bonding moments and a greater appreciation for classic cinema. The process of introducing your children to your favorite movies ultimately fosters a unique connection that transcends time.