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Table for Two: A Reflection on Parenting
Updated: July 29, 2016
Originally Published: October 10, 2005
The journey of parenthood begins in the simplest of settings: a small apartment where love is measured not by material possessions but by shared moments. After exchanging vows, tossing rice, unwrapping gifts, and carefully storing away the long satin dress, we found ourselves at a modest table for two—often the couch with an old wooden crate serving as our coffee table, topped with dinner plates. In those early days, we cooked together and washed dishes side by side, creating a perfect atmosphere for just the two of us.
During the week, our lives were filled with hard work, but the weekends were sacred—we ran errands, exercised, watched TV, and simply enjoyed each other’s company. Those memories are a bit hazy now, but the warmth of that time lingers on. For about seven years, we reveled in our lives as a couple until the arrival of our children transformed everything.
Becoming parents was a chaotic yet joyous adventure. The excitement of new parenthood was magnified by the love I had for my partner, who I knew would be a remarkable father. As our family grew—one child, then two, along with a few lively pets—we embraced the challenges of parenthood, which were often overwhelming, yet profoundly rewarding.
Now, twenty-eight years later, we find ourselves once again at a table for two—not the couch, but a grand dining table that can accommodate a crowd. Our son is busy with college and work, while our seventeen-year-old daughter juggles school, work, and social outings. This is precisely what we envisioned during those early years of parenting: our children thriving, pursuing their passions, and living fulfilling lives.
In the quiet moments when it’s just the two of us, I reflect on the many reasons I chose this journey. It’s vital to maintain the connection of ‘you and I’ amid the roles of Mom and Dad. Because ultimately, we will always return to that table for two, and I wouldn’t want to share it with anyone else.
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In summary, the transition from a couple to a family is a remarkable journey filled with challenges and joys. As children grow and become independent, the bond between partners remains essential, reminding us of the love that started it all.