The common phrase “Motherhood is a thankless job” has become a cliché. However, it’s essential to clarify that motherhood is not a job at all. While it may often feel thankless, referring to it as a job undermines its true nature. A job typically involves performing tasks in exchange for monetary compensation. In fact, unemployment in this country can be considered more of a job than the role of a mother.
For instance, consider a recent experience with my 4-year-old during spirit day at school. He was supposed to wear a specific shirt, which I distinctly recall washing and folding. Yet, when the time came, we couldn’t find it. This led to chaos as he left for school in an incorrect shirt, possibly thinking that I spend my days lounging on the couch, indulging in snacks like Cowboy Bark from Trader Joe’s. If only misplaced shirts had a way of announcing their whereabouts!
In a typical job, there are benefits such as vacation days, sick days, and mental health days. However, as a mother, I can’t remember the last time I took a break. Currently, I’m battling a sinus infection and a double ear infection, but the responsibilities of motherhood don’t pause for illness.
There’s no clocking out at 5 PM, no severance package, and no lunch breaks in motherhood. Some nights, as I lie down to sleep, I reflect on the joyful moments I shared with my children—a heartfelt laugh, a sweet “thank you, mama,” or a genuine “I love you.” These moments bring a sense of fulfillment. Yet, most days, I collapse into bed, exhausted from the relentless physical and mental demands of parenting.
Motherhood resembles the ongoing task of a janitor endlessly mopping a floor, only to watch new footprints mar the freshly cleaned surface. The difference? That janitor is compensated for their efforts, while mothers remain unpaid for their continuous labor.
I often wish I could heed the advice of well-meaning strangers, like the elderly woman at the grocery store who pinches my baby’s cheeks and says, “Enjoy it, darling; it goes by so fast.” She’s right, of course. Time does seem to fly, yet the daily grind of motherhood makes it hard to appreciate that fact. At times, I long for the ability to declare, “I QUIT! TAKE THIS JOB AND SHOVE IT!” But the truth is, it’s not a job; it’s my life.
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In summary, motherhood transcends the definition of a job. It embodies a lifelong commitment that, while often exhausting, is filled with moments of joy and love.