Dear Freshman,

I trust this letter reaches you well after your first night in the dormitory. Your text assured me that you have successfully navigated your initial day of independence, which is reassuring.

Leaving you at college brought a mix of emotions, especially when I returned home to find remnants of your takeout still on the table. It’s a well-known fact among those who have lived with you that you tend to leave a trace wherever you go. I might need to approach your room with gloves and an industrial cleaning suit in a few days.

My First Piece of Advice

To start, my first piece of advice: always tidy up after yourself, and remember to flush the toilet—a reminder from your siblings.

Eighteen years seemed a vast stretch until the moment you came into my life, and then it flew by faster than I could have imagined. I’ve discovered that the harder you try to hold onto moments, the quicker they pass. While I had hoped those years would prepare you for everything, I realize that the lines between teacher and student have blurred. The challenge of letting go is tough, but just like a mother bird must nudge her chick from the nest, it’s time for you to spread your wings. I have every confidence that you won’t just fly; you’ll soar.

You have shaped my journey as a mother, evolving me into who I am today. As my first child, you were my trial run, and I learned many lessons from my missteps with you. Now, with seven children, I feel more adept, and my hope is that my earlier mistakes haven’t left too much of a mark on you.

Your Independence

From the start, I knew you would thrive in your independence. You’ve always been determined and full of personality. I remember when you were three, humming the cleanup song while meticulously moving toys around in preschool. Your teachers were amazed, and while I was both mortified and proud, that little trick didn’t stop at school.

As you embark on this new chapter, contribute your fair share—whether at home, in class, or at work. Sometimes, you’ll need to go above and beyond. Embrace the challenges, roll up your sleeves, and approach them with a positive attitude; your efforts will not go unnoticed.

Be Bold, But Respectful

You’ve always been the vibrant force among peers, unafraid to voice your thoughts. I recall a kindergarten teacher saying, “This one is destined for greatness.” While that filled me with pride, it also made me concerned. Remember, however bold your confidence may be, it’s essential to respect your professors, as they may not find your assertiveness as charming as your classmates did.

Stay mindful of your surroundings and those you share them with. Your roommate could either be your ally or your greatest challenge, so keep the peace.

Health and Well-Being

Physical health is vital; don’t let the “Freshman 15” sneak up on you. Make a point to stay active and explore the beautiful campus outside your dorm. Life is more than just social media; seize the opportunity to discover new interests and experiences.

Peer pressure has never been a major concern for you, but remember to enjoy yourself responsibly. The college experience is fleeting, so once you are of age, allow yourself to have fun, dance, and socialize—just keep it balanced.

Embrace Your Individuality

Your individuality is something to cherish, whether it’s expressing yourself through fashion or standing up for your beliefs. Never let anyone extinguish that spark within you.

Prioritize Your Studies

Prioritize your studies. Keep open lines of communication with your professors and strive for excellence. Even if you disagree with them, they deserve your respect.

Embrace the Journey

Lastly, don’t forget to smile and embrace the journey. Each moment is an opportunity for growth.

You possess immense potential, and I have no doubt your future is filled with remarkable accomplishments.

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In summary, embrace this next phase with open arms, learn, and most importantly, have fun.