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Dear Daughters,
As your mother, I want to take a moment to explain my motivations behind blogging. This is a journey that reflects not just my thoughts but also my experiences as a parent, and I hope it resonates with you as you grow.
When I look at your sister Ava, who writes in her journal almost every day, I can’t help but think about my own childhood diaries. My entries were often trivial: “Dear Diary, we had peas for lunch again,” or “Dear Diary, I think Tommy likes me.” It’s amusing to recall that I consistently misspelled ‘diary’ and poured my thoughts into a book that felt more like a dairy! In contrast, Ava’s reflections are deep and meaningful, a testament to how much more we share our lives now.
Ava recently asked me why I choose to blog instead of keeping my thoughts private like we did when we were younger. It’s a thought-provoking question. Back in the day, our diaries were sacred; they were locked away, secrets secured beneath pillows or in drawers with closed doors. Now, however, my words are available for anyone to read. While I may not share my most intimate thoughts on my blog, I still reveal enough to connect with the world outside our home.
Writing is a powerful tool that helps me process my feelings and experiences. It’s not uncommon for me to have periods of silence in my blog, which might make you wonder about the happenings in our lives during those times. Life is always unfolding, even if I’m not documenting everything.
So, dear daughters, here are my reasons for maintaining this blog:
- Capturing Memories: I want to create a record of your early years. While I may not fill out baby books or scrapbook extensively, this blog serves as a digital archive of our lives together, complemented by countless photos stored on my devices.
- Combating Loneliness: Motherhood can sometimes feel isolating. Writing allows me to express my thoughts, even when no one is around to listen. It’s a way to communicate with myself and feel less alone.
- Connecting with Others: Through blogging, I’ve formed connections with wonderful people online. It has enabled me to create a community, akin to a playgroup, and some of these friendships will last a lifetime.
- Sharing My Identity: I wish for you to see me as more than just your mom. I want you to understand who I am beyond motherhood. I hope that when you look back, you won’t have unanswered questions about my life, as I do about my grandmother’s.
- Documenting the Little Things: Memories fade quickly, and I fear losing those small yet precious moments. It’s the little things—like the time Ava played rock-paper-scissors with our cat—that I want to remember, not just the milestones.
- Humor and Connection: While my jokes may not always land with you, perhaps someone out there will find them amusing. Writing allows me to share my humor with a broader audience.
- The Joy of Writing: I simply enjoy writing. It brings me joy and keeps my mind sharp. I want to maintain this habit for as long as I can, even into old age.
With all this in mind, I encourage you to consider starting a blog of your own. You may not take all of my advice, but I hope you find this suggestion worthwhile.
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In summary, my blog serves as a way to preserve memories, connect with others, and express my thoughts. It’s an avenue for creativity and reflection that I hope will be meaningful to you in the future.
Love you both,
Mom