Navigating Parenting Labels: A Personal Perspective

In recent years, a trend has emerged where mothers are often categorized into specific parenting styles—Natural Parenting, Attachment Parenting, Gentle Parenting, and more. These labels can sometimes create a sense of division among mothers, leading to questions about identity and belonging.

Why Labels?

Why have we started to pigeonhole ourselves into these categories? As a mother, I find myself grappling with this very issue. I know many women who proudly identify with their chosen labels, but I often feel like an outsider. Like trying on jeans, I find that none of these labels fit me perfectly. Some aspects resonate, but others don’t—leading me to wonder if I am somehow doing it wrong.

My Parenting Journey

For instance, I exclusively breastfeed my child, which might categorize me as a natural parent. I co-sleep, suggesting I lean toward attachment parenting. However, my family dynamics complicate things further: my children have different fathers, and I am not married to my partner. This could lead some to label me as a “trashy mama” or an “alt mama.” Yet, I also practice discipline like spanking and own firearms, which creates even more dissonance. I sometimes lose my temper, shed tears in the shower, and playfully spray my children with a hose when they are outside. I take them to church occasionally and cherish their smell after a day of outdoor play.

Breaking Free from Labels

The essence of motherhood seems lost in this high school clique mentality. I never fit in during my school days, and I don’t want to fit into a predetermined box now. I believe that I am raising my children in a way that works for us, and based on their happiness and development, I’d say I’m doing it right. And perhaps you are too.

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Conclusion

In summary, the labeling of parenting styles can create unnecessary pressure and confusion. Every mother has her unique approach, and there is no singular way to navigate the journey of motherhood. Embrace your individuality, and trust that you are doing what is best for your family.