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The Ideal Mother: A Reflection on Parenting
“My choice for a mom would always be you,” my 9-year-old daughter declared with a bright smile.
“That’s really touching,” I replied, slightly skeptical. “What makes you say that?”
“Because you’re the best mom in the world,” she said, twirling away with a flourish.
Really? I find it hard to believe.
Some days, I feel like I might be one of the worst mothers imaginable—not in the sense of causing harm, which is a whole different issue, but rather in my everyday struggles to be, as Mary Poppins puts it, “practically perfect in every way.”
I often find myself rushing the kids through breakfast, snapping at them to hurry so they won’t be late for school. I threaten to take away my toddler’s favorite toy when she runs around the dinner table like a wild animal. When my sixth grader dramatically collapses on the floor from a stubbed toe, I roll my eyes instead of offering comfort. I lose my patience as my middle child recounts the details of her day for what feels like an eternity. I even find myself daydreaming about a life without children.
So please, if you’re seeking the best mom in the world, look elsewhere.
Yet, I still believe I should be your choice.
You should choose me because I am fearless about spiders, climbing mountains, or even scraping my knee. I fear failure less than I fear not trying, especially when it’s something you want but hesitate to pursue. Courage, confidence, and faith are essential qualities I can help you develop. I will also show you that asking for assistance and recognizing your limits is a sign of strength, not weakness, as you work towards your goals with support from others.
You should pick me because I can do a cartwheel, skate, and rollerblade. I genuinely enjoy attending baseball games—not just for the snacks but for the joy of watching you play soccer with fierce determination, even if you miss the shot.
You should choose me because I will hold your hand during takeoffs and landings. Transitions, whether good or bad, can be daunting, and a comforting hand can make all the difference.
You should pick me because I will always be honest with you. My truths won’t just be harsh realities; they will guide you, even if they are difficult to hear. Truth can feel like a drug—some crave it constantly, while others avoid it out of fear. Finding your balance in both sharing and receiving it is essential.
You should choose me because I know how you love to snuggle as you drift off to sleep. I can give you a goodnight kiss without getting caught in your headgear. When I tuck you in, I will always return your “night-night-love-you” with the same warmth.
You should pick me because I make your lunches fresh each morning, reflecting my love for you.
You should pick me because I believe in magic—whether it’s the Tooth Fairy, the small miracles of blooming peonies, or the wonders of the universe. The intricacies of life are a marvel beyond mere algorithms.
You should choose me because we resonate on so many levels. We are perfectionists who dread making mistakes and often feel responsible for others’ emotions. Our enthusiasm and creative ideas overflow, bringing vibrancy to our interactions.
So yes, choose me, for no one knows you better, and no one loves you more. I may not be perfect, but I am your mom, and that makes me the best for you.
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Summary
This article reflects on the challenges and joys of motherhood, emphasizing that while perfection may be unattainable, love and support are what truly matter in parenting. It invites readers to appreciate the unique bond between mother and child and to recognize the value of perseverance and honesty in their relationship.