Dear [Partner’s Name],
We need to have an open conversation. Remember those passionate nights we shared while trying to conceive? Well, things have changed significantly now that I’m pregnant. Just a few months ago, I was full of energy and desire. But now, my libido has taken a backseat, and I want to explain why.
1. Physical Changes
My body is experiencing a resurgence of adolescent skin issues, which is quite unpleasant. I’m dealing with breakouts not only on my face but also on my chest. While you may love me unconditionally, it’s hard to feel attractive when I have what I like to call “boobne.” This makes intimacy feel less appealing, even if you’ve been there for all three births.
2. Heightened Sensitivity
My sense of smell has become incredibly acute. For instance, I can still detect the lingering scent of those onion rings you had for lunch last week, despite your efforts to freshen your breath. This olfactory sensitivity can be overwhelming, making close encounters less than enjoyable.
3. Digestive Distress
My digestive system is in turmoil. It oscillates between constipation and sudden urgency, creating an uncomfortable environment for intimacy. The thought of physical closeness during these unpredictable moments is simply unappealing.
4. Limited Mobility
My growing belly has made movement challenging. I’m feeling quite cumbersome, and the idea of engaging in any complex positions is out of the question right now. It’s probably best to set aside those Kama Sutra ideas for the time being.
5. An Unwanted Audience
Even though medical professionals assure us that intimacy is safe during pregnancy, the notion of having our little one “witnessing” the act is quite unsettling. Would you feel comfortable being intimate with one of our other children in the same room? I think not.
Rest assured, my love, that this phase is temporary. My desire will return one day. Given the close age gaps between our children, you can see that I’m hopeful for a resurgence of our intimate life in the near future.
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In conclusion, while the current circumstances may be challenging, they are not permanent. I appreciate your understanding and patience during this time.