Dear Little One,
I understand your overwhelming affection for your baby sister, and I see how much you want to express that love. However, it’s important to remember that, while your intentions are good, your actions can sometimes lead to distress.
Gentle Affection
First, I know you want to give her a big hug, but squeezing too tightly can make her uncomfortable. Remember, she’s not a toy, and it’s crucial to be gentle.
Respecting Personal Space
You might also think it’s fun to play with her ears, but trust me when I say that pinching them isn’t enjoyable for her. It’s essential to respect her personal space.
Sharing Responsibly
When you decided to share a drink of water, your heart was in the right place. But let’s be clear: pouring water all over her isn’t the best way to quench anyone’s thirst.
Awareness of Surroundings
Your playful spirit is wonderful, but when you’re galloping around on your stick horse, make sure you’re aware of your surroundings—trampling over your sister can be quite alarming for her.
Helping Her Walk
I know you want her to walk, and you’re excited to help her, but dropping her when she’s not ready can be quite frightening. Strength comes with time, and she needs to build hers gradually.
Feeding with Care
Your attempts to feed her are admirable, but not all foods are suitable for her age. For example, onion skins can be quite troublesome and are better left off the menu.
Cuddling Safely
I see your enthusiasm to cuddle, but climbing into her crib can be overwhelming for a baby. They thrive on a sense of security, which can be disrupted by sudden movements.
Gentle Play
You might enjoy pretending to nibble on her chubby limbs like I do, but it’s important to remember that teeth can hurt.
Avoiding Accidents
Even though you wanted to play catch, a black eye is not the outcome we’re aiming for.
Learning Gentle Touches
Pinching may seem like a playful gesture to you, but it can cause pain, and we must teach you about gentle touches.
Sharing Toys
While I understand the allure of her toys, remember that sharing is key. She was playing with it first, and it’s important to respect that.
Dressing with Care
When dressing her, remember to undo buttons instead of forcing her head through fabric.
Sweet Treats
Your desire to share treats is sweet, but she’s too young for chocolate, and it’s difficult to explain why I had to take it away when it gets messy.
Playing Safely
Playing hide-and-seek sounds fun, but hiding her under a blanket can lead to a very upset baby.
Aiming Safely
Lastly, when you’re playing with your toy bow and arrow, keep in mind that she can’t even crawl yet, and aiming at her isn’t a safe idea.
In Summary
In summary, my precious little one, I know your love for your baby sister is genuine, but it can often lead to tears. Please, for everyone’s sake, remember to be gentle and mindful of her needs.
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