What to Truly Anticipate After Delivery

While many expectant mothers read popular titles like What to Expect When You’re Expecting and The Girlfriend’s Guide to Pregnancy, these resources often fall short in preparing them for the realities of postpartum life. Friends may offer some insights, but they often spare the details, thinking, “She’s already in it; she’ll manage.” I want you to be better prepared. Here’s an honest overview of what to expect after you give birth—information that may not be covered in your books, classes, or conversations with friends.

1. Expect Significant Bleeding

You may have heard about the post-delivery bleeding and the large maxi pads and disposable underwear that accompany it, which, let’s be honest, no one looks good in. However, the reality can be shocking. The flow can be quite heavy, and while it may seem overwhelming, it will eventually taper off. Just remember that some mess is inevitable, so be mentally prepared.

2. Ditch the Cute Pajamas

After the baby arrives, your body will be expelling various fluids, which means that any cute nightgown you bought for welcoming visitors is probably best left in the closet. Embrace the hospital gown instead—it’s practical and makes life easier during those first few days. You’ll have plenty of opportunities to don stylish sleepwear once you’re home, likely living in your comfiest pajamas for weeks (or even months).

3. The Urgency to Urinate

Did you know that after giving birth, you’re expected to urinate within an hour? This can be quite challenging due to swelling and tenderness in the area. Nurses will encourage you to do this, and if you struggle, they may resort to catheterization—a prospect that is less than appealing given what you’ve just experienced. It’s a reminder that your body has been through a lot, and you deserve all the care and compassion during this time.

4. Exhaustion Is Real

The instinct is to keep your newborn close for bonding, but let’s face it—you’re utterly fatigued. Don’t hesitate to ask the nurses to take the baby to the nursery for a bit so you can catch some much-needed rest. You may think you can power through it, but the constant interruptions for checks can be draining. Remember, you’ve just accomplished something monumental, and you deserve to recharge.

5. Milk Production

Milk production may take time, but colostrum will begin to flow soon after delivery. You’ll face decisions on breastfeeding or formula feeding relatively quickly, so be prepared for the pressure. If you choose to breastfeed, your body will soon adjust to the changes, bringing noticeable fullness. Enjoy these moments—your body has just done something incredible.

As you embark on this new chapter filled with sleepless nights, exhausting days, and concerns for your newborn’s safety, remember that you’re not alone in this journey. You’ll navigate through it all beautifully!

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Summary

In summary, the postpartum experience is often filled with unexpected realities. From significant bleeding and the necessity to wear hospital gowns to the urgency of urination and overwhelming exhaustion, new mothers face numerous challenges. Additionally, the transition to milk production brings its own set of decisions and pressures. Being informed about these realities can help you prepare for and navigate this transformative time.