As parents, our actions for our children stem from an abundance of love. We engage in their imaginative play, support their unique dressing styles, and consistently reassure them of their brilliance and beauty. However, there are moments when our patience is tested, and instead of expressing our true feelings, we often resort to more diplomatic language. Here’s a breakdown of common phrases parents use and their actual meanings:
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We Say: “We’ll see.”
We Mean: “Not a chance, so please stop asking.” -
We Say: “No, we’re not there yet.”
We Mean: “Keep it up, and we’ll get there with you strapped to the roof.” -
We Say: “Want to play with my iPhone?”
We Mean: “If I hand this over, will you allow me a moment of peace to enjoy my coffee?” -
We Say: “Mm-hmm.” (While making eye contact)
We Mean: “How long do I have to pretend to listen for you to leave me alone?” -
We Say: “Mm-hmm.” (Without eye contact)
We Mean: “I’m completely tuning you out.” -
We Say: “Wow, really?”
We Mean: “I have no idea what you just said.” -
We Say: “Are you sure about that?”
We Mean: “You’re mistaken or confused. Please reconsider what you just stated.” -
We Say: (Silence with blatant ignoring)
We Mean: “I’m holding back a shout. For your own benefit, stop talking and just walk away.” -
We Say: “Go ask Mommy/Daddy.”
We Mean: “Please go irritate someone else.”
For those navigating the journey of parenthood, understanding these nuances can be helpful. For more insights, check out our related blog post at this link. Additionally, resources such as Make a Mom provide valuable information on fertility journeys, while March of Dimes offers excellent support for those considering fertility treatments.
In summary, the phrases we use as parents often mask our true feelings, blending humor with the challenges of parenting. Recognizing these underlying meanings can foster better communication and understanding within the family.