Embrace Your True Selves: A Message to My Daughters

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Dear Daughters,

As I watch your joyful faces light up with smiles, I am reminded of your desire for my presence at every moment. The way you snuggle against me and seek the warmth of my hand feels both familiar and extraordinary, creating a bond that often blurs the lines between us.

When I first became a mother, this closeness was overwhelming. It forced me to confront my identity as my once fiercely protected independence began to wane. You arrived with a need that reshaped my understanding of self. Before you were even born, you began to redefine me, and our journey together has been a beautiful dance.

However, I recognize that this need for me will not last forever. One day, perhaps sooner than I anticipate, you will seek to carve your own paths, exploring your identities apart from me—and even from each other. My deepest hope is that you will always support one another, as no one else will share your memories, your upbringing, or your unique bond. This thought of separation is painful, yet it is my responsibility to prepare you for the challenges of the world, and most importantly, for the inner battles you will face.

As you navigate through life, there may come times when you feel lost between your aspirations and your current reality. During these moments, I hope you will remember the entirety of who you are. You should strive to feel whole, even amid chaos or despair. There will be days when you feel suffocated by circumstances, when time seems to stretch indefinitely. It is in those moments that I hope you will find not only a piece of me but, more crucially, the strength to discover your true selves.

You are my daughters, my loves, and my lineage. Yet, you do not belong to me; you belong to yourselves. Each day, it is essential that you claim your identity. Take ownership of your space—look up and embrace it with confidence. Speak your names with strength and kindness. Cherish your bodies, the vessels that allow you to experience life, as they are your sanctuaries.

Throughout your lives, society will impose expectations on you—pressuring you to conform to its standards of beauty, behavior, and femininity. Do not let the voices of others drown out your inner truths. The opinions of both significant and trivial figures may attempt to distort your perception of self-worth, making you feel uncomfortable in your own skin. Remember, your body is not merely an object to be judged; it is your home. Even in challenging times, the only voice that defines your value is your own.

If you’re interested in more insights related to family and self-exploration, check out this other blog post. For those considering family planning, Make a Mom offers valuable resources. Additionally, UCSF provides excellent information on pregnancy and home insemination.

In summary, my dear daughters, as you grow and evolve, remember to embrace your individuality. Claim your identities, trust your inner voice, and support each other as you navigate the complexities of life.