15 Aspirations for New Parents

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As friends embark on the journey of parenthood, it’s heartening to see them approach this life-altering experience with openness rather than the false confidence that often accompanies first-time parents. Reflecting on my own journey, I find myself wishing for them the following:

1. A Preference Against Certain Shows: I hope your child develops a strong aversion to shows like Caillou. While it might be asking too much to wish for a dislike of both Caillou and Max & Ruby, it remains the most favorable outcome.
2. A Quieting Comfort: I hope your baby discovers a cherished item, be it a pacifier or a cuddly giraffe, that brings them comfort and quietude. Ideally, this item should be replaceable and not solely reliant on you.
3. One Challenging Aspect: Every baby has their unique struggle, whether it’s sleeping issues or diaper changes. I hope you only encounter one of these challenges, as most parents do not escape unscathed.
4. Carrying Preferences: I hope your baby prefers the carrying method you enjoy, whether it’s a bucket, sling, or an ergonomic carrier, without insisting on sleeping in that position.
5. Avoiding Pinterest Pitfalls: I hope you steer clear of Pinterest during this time; there’s a season for inspiration, but early parenthood is not it.
6. List-Making Realities: I hope you can create lists without repeating items, convincing your partner that you haven’t missed anything.
7. Balanced Perspectives on TV: I hope you remember that television didn’t ruin you, and it won’t ruin your child either. If you have reservations, I hope your friends remain understanding.
8. Avoiding Overbearing Advice: I hope you don’t encounter well-meaning individuals who insist their parenting method is the only effective one. What works for one family may not suit another.
9. Supportive Connections: I hope you find a trustworthy friend, whether from a message board, high school, or class, who can be your confidant. My own support network included a childhood friend and a lactation consultant named Sarah, who provided invaluable reassurance.
10. Postpartum Preparedness: I hope someone prepares you for the realities of postpartum life, specifically mentioning the need for mesh underwear and adequate pads.
11. A Helping Partner: I hope your partner supports you, whether through shared responsibilities or simply providing food when needed.
12. Understanding from Others: I hope you receive understanding from those around you without needing to make a scene about it.
13. Avoiding Competition: I hope you don’t feel pressured to compete with other parents, recognizing that they too may be struggling.
14. Realistic Body Expectations: I hope you develop a realistic understanding of what a “post-baby body” looks like, steering clear of sensationalized articles on the topic.
15. Instinctual Parenting: Most importantly, I hope you come to realize what took me too long to learn: you are inherently equipped to be your baby’s parent. Trust your instincts—they’re likely accurate—and remember that your baby simply needs you, complete with your doubts, questions, and everything that comes with the journey of parenthood.

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In summary, as you navigate the complexities of parenting, remember to trust yourself, seek support, and embrace the journey with an open heart.