10 Commitments I’ve Made to My Daughter

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Dear Emily,

As you navigate your early years, I am acutely aware of the pressures the world may impose on you, threatening to overshadow your childhood. In light of this, I want to articulate ten commitments I make to you as your mother.

1. Embrace Your Body: I pledge to foster a positive body image in you. You will never hear me mention “diet” or “fattening,” nor will you hear me criticize my appearance. I’ll always remind you that the lines around my eyes are from laughter, not from regret. Your health is paramount; everything else pales in comparison.
2. No Gender Restrictions: I will never suggest that your gender limits your abilities. I admire your determination in basketball, even when you’re the only girl on the team. Your fierce spirit while defending and sprinting for the ball fills me with pride. I promise to always nurture your passions.
3. Promote Kindness: I will not allow you to engage in unkind behaviors. It is crucial that you understand the importance of compassion and inclusion. The world can be harsh, especially for young girls, and I will ensure you never contribute to another’s pain.
4. Media Shielding: I will protect you from the negative influences of advertising as long as possible. While I know I cannot shield you forever, I will keep you away from magazines that promote unrealistic beauty standards until you are equipped to handle such messages.
5. Find Your Voice: I encourage you to express yourself boldly and confidently. Your thoughts and ideas are important. Share them passionately, regardless of how unconventional they may seem. Your voice deserves to be heard.
6. Natural Beauty: I will not pressure you into wearing makeup. My hope is that you will always see your natural beauty and never feel the need to alter it to fit societal expectations.
7. Savor Childhood: I will do my best to prolong your childhood. I want you to enjoy the innocence of playing with dolls and daydreaming about magical adventures. Growing up too fast is a common trend, but I want you to relish every moment of your youth.
8. Open Communication: I promise to listen to your thoughts and dreams with an open heart. Your unique perspective on life fascinates me, even when it seems whimsical or intense. I look forward to many enlightening discussions as we journey through life together.
9. Unconditional Love: No matter the challenges that arise during your teenage years, I will always love you. I understand that emotions can run high, and I will strive to be a calming presence. We may have our disagreements, but I will always be there to hug you and forgive.
10. Endless Love: Lastly, if you haven’t grasped it yet, know that my love for you is infinite. I take my role as your mother seriously and thus commit these promises to writing, asking you to hold me accountable.

With all my love,
Mom

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In summary, these commitments reflect my deep love and desire to guide you through life’s complexities while empowering you to embrace your individuality and kindness.