A Letter to My Pregnant, Childless Self

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Dear Future Mom,

As your due date draws near, I want to address some of the concerns you’re fixating on right now. It’s important to understand that much of what you’re worrying about is insignificant. What you truly need to do is prioritize rest—go to bed early and sleep as much as you can before your life changes forever. Soon, those peaceful nights will be a distant memory, replaced by sleepless hours filled with baby cries and the challenges of new parenthood.

You might think that discomfort is keeping you awake now, but just wait. In a few months, you’ll be wide awake at 3 AM, not because you want to, but because you’ll be dealing with the aftermath of a newborn’s needs. You’ll find yourself wishing for the days when the only thing keeping you up at night was your expanding belly.

On Labor and Delivery

Let’s also talk about those thoughts about labor. You’re concerned about the possibility of embarrassing moments during delivery, like pooping on the table. Trust me, when the time comes, you won’t care where anything lands—your sole focus will be on bringing your baby into the world. You’ll be ready to do anything to speed up the process, even if it means making peace with the unexpected.

And that book on natural childbirth? It may not be as helpful as you think. Instead of stressing over breathing techniques, consider finding resources like What the F*** Do I Do with This Baby? The reality is that once labor begins, you’ll likely seek pain relief at the first opportunity. Remember, the delivery is just a moment in time, while parenting is a lifelong journey.

On Parenting Perspectives

You also have some strong opinions about parenting now, but soon you will realize just how little you actually know. Judging others’ choices will only lead you to a path of mom guilt. The friend you criticize for taking a little extra time for herself? You’ll find yourself wishing for those same moments of solitude before long. And that woman in the grocery store? Your body will undergo changes that you can’t yet fathom.

So indulge a bit while you can—enjoy that cheesecake, because soon, your focus will shift. You’ll be that mom rushing out the door with mismatched clothes and remnants of breakfast still on your child. The idea of regular showers will seem like a luxury, and you might find going to the dentist turns into a rare escape.

Embracing the Journey

After your baby arrives, you may feel overwhelmed by new responsibilities and the emotional rollercoaster that accompanies postpartum life. You might even find yourself considering birth control just to avoid the chaos of another child. Yet, in a moment of weakness, you might decide to throw caution to the wind and try again.

One thing will carry you through the challenges—an indescribable love that you can’t quite grasp yet. So brace yourself for this journey ahead. It’s time to set aside judgment and foster support for fellow mothers. You’ll need it more than you realize.

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In summary, you’re entering a phase of life that will redefine everything. Embrace the chaos and the love that comes with it.