Five Reasons Parenting Was Simpler in 1984

Raising a five-year-old these days feels way more challenging than I ever imagined. I mean, I was five back in 1984, and it seemed like a much easier time for parents. Sure, motherhood has always had its struggles, but nowadays we have a ton of things that complicate it even further. Honestly, I sometimes find myself envying our moms and the simpler parenting days of 1984—especially since they didn’t have the internet, which seems to be the source of all my parenting worries.

1. Streaming Services

When I first started using streaming services a few months ago, I thought it was a dream come true. Now, I’m convinced these platforms are my worst nightmare. My kid, Max, is absolutely obsessed. “Mom, is it on the streaming service? Can I watch it on your phone? On my tablet? On the TV?” The instant access just makes his impatience skyrocket. The other night, he interrupted me while I was watching something, asking if I was on the streaming service. I had to explain that I was just watching regular TV. Good luck explaining why some shows are available and others aren’t. Back in my day, the choice was simple: watch whatever was on or go play outside. Plus, our moms never had to deal with shows like Caillou…

2. Social Media

If there’s one thing that truly complicates motherhood, it’s social media. Comparing ourselves to others can be toxic. You see Sally’s kid doing some fancy art project, and suddenly you feel compelled to rush out and buy supplies for a sensory table. Or you scroll past pictures of Mary’s kid at the zoo while you’re stuck at work, and now you’re feeling guilty for not taking Max to the zoo in ages. I renew our membership, promising to visit regularly, only to forget about it the next time Mary posts. There are also those perfectly cooked meals that moms share, while I’m over here serving pizza for the third consecutive night. Then come the posts filled with unsolicited advice on what not to do, which can feel overwhelming. Our moms didn’t have to deal with this constant barrage of comparisons and opinions; they lived in the moment.

3. Craft Ideas Galore

Oh, Pinterest, where do I even start? Our mothers didn’t have to contend with the endless stream of crafts and DIY projects that make us feel inadequate. Johnny’s mom posts a million craft ideas, and I’m left wondering why I can’t even manage to bake cookies without making a mess. Back in 1984, they didn’t have the pressure of pinning and re-pinning hundreds of ideas that most of us will never find the time to try. I would have been blissfully unaware of all the things I’m “supposed” to do.

4. The Google Trap

Google has turned many parents into worrywarts. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve Googled a minor rash, only to convince myself it’s serious. I know I’m not alone in this; it’s easy to spiral into a panic. Just last week, Max’s pediatrician told me, “Please don’t Google it. Just call me if you’re worried.” Our moms didn’t have to deal with the anxiety that comes from over-analyzing every little symptom.

5. The “Free” Craze

Nowadays, I spend half my time stressing over whether things are non-toxic, BPA-free, or whatever else is “free.” I obsess over every product—creams, toys, food—and I can’t keep up with all the latest trends. Last week, I texted my partner, “Did you know that juice from China is a big no-no?” When he asked why, I realized I didn’t have a solid answer—like, “We just don’t!” Back in the day, our parents didn’t read labels or worry about such things. They survived just fine!

In summary, parenting in 1984 seems simpler, with less pressure from technology and social media. Our moms navigated motherhood without the overwhelming comparisons and constant access to information that we face today. Sometimes, it’s nice to reminisce about those simpler times. If you’re curious about more resources related to parenting and home insemination, you might want to check out this excellent resource. And for those interested in home insemination options, this link is a great place to start. For more insights on parenting, feel free to delve into our terms of service.