When I found out I was pregnant, I was thrilled to join the mom club. But soon, the excitement turned into shock when I learned I was having three little ones! While I absolutely adore my trio, it sometimes feels like it sets me apart from other moms. Here’s a peek into my life raising triplets:
- I often daydream about what it’s like to have just one child. Not because I wish for fewer kids—I’m head over heels for my three munchkins—but I sometimes envy those quiet moments when a newborn snuggles peacefully in your arms. For me, that blissful time usually means switching to the next baby for a bottle. I often find myself imagining a simple grocery run without the curious glances or comments about my family. Normalcy feels like a distant dream.
- Others find my situation intriguing—except me. Having triplets tends to invite a lot of questions, many of which can feel a bit too personal. People feel free to ask things like, “Are they natural?” or “Did you use fertility treatments?” While I’m open about my journey with infertility and IVF, it can feel intrusive when strangers pry. From the comments at coffee shops to cars slowing down as I stroll with my triple stroller, it can be overwhelming. I’m not shy by nature, but I’ve learned to keep my head down and avoid eye contact to escape the spotlight.
- Our normal looks different from yours. It’s not a matter of better or worse, just different. Juggling three infants means we tackle unique logistical challenges every day. From finding car seats that fit three across to wondering if a restaurant has enough high chairs, the problems we face might seem foreign to you. We’re all just adapting to life with a newborn; we just have a few more hurdles to jump over!
- I will never downplay your challenges. You might say, “I shouldn’t complain; I only have one baby.” Please, vent away! We’re all in this together, and every struggle is valid. Whether you’re managing one baby or three, the stress of caring for a little one is real, and we’re all on the same team as moms.
- In some ways, I have it easier than you. Sure, managing triplets is no walk in the park, but there are perks. For instance, when it’s bedtime, my little ones usually drift off without needing extra coaxing. They also entertain each other, which gives me a bit of breathing room. I can’t imagine being a child’s sole source of entertainment all day—that must be exhausting!
- I’m not a Supermom. I dislike that title! If you had three babies, you’d do the same. Honestly, you’d probably manage it better than I do. I’m just doing what any mom would do—raising my kids.
- I need your support. Sometimes, people assume I’m too busy to connect, or they prefer a simpler outing with just one friend and her child. I get it, but I really do need someone to bounce ideas off and share experiences with. When chaos takes over, it helps to have a friend to lean on, and I hope you can lean on me, too.
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In summary, raising triplets is a unique adventure filled with challenges and joys that differ from the traditional parenting experience. While it can feel isolating, it’s important to remember that all parenting struggles are valid, and support from fellow moms is invaluable.