Why Every Holiday Dinner Should Be a Potluck

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Let’s be honest, holiday gatherings can be a lot of work. I used to roll my eyes at friends who stressed out about hosting, thinking, “Why can’t they just chill?” But then I took on the challenge of hosting Thanksgiving myself, and oh boy, did I gain some perspective.

First off, preparing a big meal for a crowd is no small feat. You’ve got to whip up delicious dishes, tidy your home, cater to various dietary needs, and ensure everyone feels welcome and happy. All of this while trying to maintain a calm and cheerful demeanor? It’s a recipe for stress. The pressure to make it all look effortless is intense, especially when you know everyone has their own cherished memories and expectations for holiday meals.

I absolutely love bringing people together. It’s a joy to curate the perfect playlist, serve tasty snacks, and help everyone mingle. But Thanksgiving? That’s a whole different ball game. Everyone arrives with their own high hopes, and I wanted to deliver a meal that would leave them raving. I dove into research on turkey roasting, mashed potato techniques, and countless other culinary tidbits. Then came the shopping, cleaning, and countless hours spent prepping dishes. By the time my guests rolled in, I was frazzled and far from the picture of holiday cheer.

When my brother arrived, he was tired and not exactly ready to shower me with compliments—especially since my kitchen was filled with smoke from a little mishap I’d rather forget. Instead of enjoying the moment, I let his less-than-enthusiastic demeanor get under my skin. I had poured so much energy into the meal that I couldn’t help but feel annoyed when things didn’t go perfectly.

Here’s the takeaway:

Don’t become that stressed-out hostess. The societal pressure to be a perfect hostess—think of a blend of Martha Stewart and Kelly Ripa—is overwhelming. So, if you’re hosting this holiday season, embrace the idea of a potluck! Ask your guests to bring a dish or two. Not only does it lighten your load, but it also allows everyone to contribute and feel involved. Plus, sharing the culinary duties can lead to a more relaxed atmosphere and a fun mix of flavors on the table.

American culture often overlooks the value of domestic work, which can lead to unnecessary stress. This holiday season, let’s shift that narrative and encourage everyone to pitch in.

For more insights on how to navigate the holiday season and family dynamics, check out this related post.

In summary, hosting can be overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be. Embrace the potluck style to make your holiday gatherings more enjoyable for everyone. Let’s celebrate together without the stress of perfection.