10 Things Working Moms Prefer Not to Hear

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Hey there! So, I’ve been a working mom for about four years now, and let me tell you, the transition from being a stay-at-home parent was no walk in the park. Sure, I got endless compliments on my decision to stay home, but once I went back to work, the support seemed to evaporate. You might get a “Wow, you’re like a superhero!” but the underlying message often feels like, “There’s no way you’re managing this well, and your kids are missing out on a real mom.” It’s a tough juggling act trying to meet the needs of both your kids and your job, and it can get overwhelming. Here’s a light-hearted look at 10 comments that working moms really don’t want to hear:

1. “I could NEVER leave my kids at daycare!” Sure, you might feel that way, but many of us don’t have a choice. This usually comes off as “I’m a better parent than you,” so maybe just keep that thought to yourself.
2. “Wouldn’t it be great if you could help out more in the classroom? Your daughter would love it!” I get it, teachers want parental involvement, but I’ve already squeezed in volunteering when I can. It’s tough trying to balance work and school commitments!
3. “Hello, Mrs. Smith? Your child has a fever; can you come pick him up?” This dreaded call always comes when I’m in the middle of a chaotic workday. I love my kids, but the stress about losing my job because of a sick child is real!
4. “Could you at least volunteer as an assistant coach?” Honestly, I barely have time to make dinner, let alone coach a sports team. Sorry, but I can’t help your little star with their nose-picking habit.
5. “Next session, we’ll have lessons at 4 PM instead of 5:30 PM!” Seriously? Why do so many activities happen at times that working parents can’t manage? It just makes me feel more out of the loop.
6. “That’s a nice purse! I wish I could afford it.” This may appear innocent, but it’s usually an insinuation that I’m working for luxury rather than just to make ends meet. I’d love to have that fantasy life, but it’s not my reality.
7. “Maybe he wouldn’t be so hyper if he spent more time with you.” Ouch! This one cuts deep. It makes me question if I’m doing enough as a parent, which is not what I need to hear.
8. “Why don’t you just work part-time? You’re away so much!” Newsflash: part-time daycare costs nearly the same as full-time. I looked into it, and it’s not the magical solution people think it is.
9. “How do you do it all?” This sounds like a compliment but often feels like a challenge, as if I’m expected to prove that my chaotic life isn’t a complete disaster.
10. “Don’t you miss the kids when you’re at work?” Of course, I do! But unless you’re willing to help pay the bills, maybe keep those thoughts to yourself.

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In summary, working moms face a barrage of comments that can be frustrating. It’s essential to remember that every parent’s journey is unique, and support goes a long way in easing the challenges we all face.