8 Things I Wish I Knew About Expecting Twins

Hey there, soon-to-be mom of twins! I see you rocking that “My Pod has Two Peas” shirt, valiantly stretching to its limits, blissfully unaware of the sliver of skin peeking out where your shirt meets your maternity pants. The mix of emotions in your eyes—fear, joy, and a sprinkle of exhaustion—is honestly the perfect recipe for preparing for twins.

Five years ago, I was in your shoes, wishing I had a closet full of oversized maternity wear. It was a whirlwind of anxiety and excitement, and while nothing can fully prepare you for this journey, here are some insights I wish I had back then.

1. It’s Tough

Seriously tough. From the moment those two heartbeats become evident, expect a different level of challenge compared to your singleton experiences. I’m not trying to scare you—just know that if you feel overwhelmed, you’re not alone.

2. It Will Get Better

Keep pushing through, my friend. One day, you’ll recognize each baby’s unique cry, learn their favorite swings, and maybe even survive a day without tears (both yours and theirs). It won’t happen overnight, but trust me, it does get easier.

3. Fake It Until You Make It

This mindset will help you reach that easier phase sooner. Shower, wear real pants, put on some lip gloss, and treat yourself to a little self-care. Tapping into your pre-twin self will reconnect you to the joy waiting on the other side.

4. Marriage Might Struggle

Trials are bound to happen—like that 2 a.m. moment when you accidentally punch your partner after a sleepless night with the babies. Hang in there, lean on each other, and keep the communication flowing. Small gestures like pizza or wine can work wonders.

5. Twins = Double the Joy and Chaos

Babyproof your home the moment you see those two heartbeats on the ultrasound. But don’t be shocked when they find ways around every safety measure! By 15 months, my twins were scaling cribs and raiding the fridge. It’s like living with two tiny, mischievous monkeys. Trust me, you’ll want that wine on a high shelf!

6. Capture the Moments

Take photos! One day you’ll look back and laugh at the madness. Documenting these moments will remind you of how far you’ve come.

7. Register for Girlfriends, Sitters, and Wine

These are your true lifelines. Don’t feel guilty for seeking help—embrace it! If you can enjoy time with friends, do it, and let them know how much you appreciate their support.

8. You Are a Warrior

It might drive you up the wall when people say how lucky you are, especially when you’re too tired to muster a proper response. It’s okay to feel overwhelmed; you’re doing a monumental job caring for two little lives. Remember that you’ve been chosen for this adventure, and while it’s tough, it’s also incredibly rewarding. As you navigate this journey, celebrate every tiny victory and embrace your rockstar status.

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In summary, expecting twins is a unique adventure filled with challenges and joys. While the road ahead may seem daunting, it will also be incredibly rewarding. Embrace every moment, seek support, and remember that you’re stronger than you think.