Surprise! Expecting Baby Number Three

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Wow, surprise! I’m expecting my third child! There, I said it out loud, and now it feels so real. My partner Jake and I hadn’t planned for a third, but we hadn’t completely ruled it out either. I was still contemplating, not quite ready to close the baby shop, while he was done the moment our second son arrived. So, yeah, this news is a bit of a shock.

Just a few weeks ago, I found myself pacing nervously in a Walmart bathroom waiting for the results of a pregnancy test (no judgment, it was the closest spot!). Those few minutes dragged on forever, and when the lines finally appeared, I was frozen in disbelief. How did this happen? Okay, I know how it happened. But still—how did this happen?

Thoughts in a Panic

In the next thirty seconds, my mind raced at lightning speed. Total panic mode. Here’s a peek into my thoughts:

• “Look at it again. That can’t be right. Check the instructions. What does a smiley face mean?
• Did I even take my pill? Jake can’t control himself!
• I’m still trying to shed baby number two’s weight!
• What if it’s another boy? Can I really handle three boys?
• We need a new car! Three car seats?
• How will we afford vacations? Party of five!? No more guest room!
• How far along am I? Oh no, I just had that girls’ weekend and drank way too much!
• I need another job, and so does Jake. He’s going to lose it!
• Two in diapers? What if it’s a girl? WHAT IF IT IS A GIRL?
• I definitely need another job. Wait… I’m still in a Walmart bathroom.
• I should call Jake. Pull yourself together, you’re pregnant. I’m pregnant. I can do this.”

After that little pep talk with myself, I instinctively placed my hand on my belly and smiled. Here we go again, but now as a family of five. God help me!

Resources for Expecting Parents

If you’re also navigating the ups and downs of pregnancy or considering home insemination, check out this article. For more info, Make A Mom is a great resource on at-home insemination kits. Additionally, Medical News Today offers excellent insights on fertility and pregnancy.

Embracing the Journey

In summary, my unexpected news of baby number three has sent my mind into a whirlwind of thoughts and emotions. Despite the shock and chaos, I’m starting to embrace the journey ahead.