10 Essential Guidelines for Visiting New Moms

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Hey there, friends! If you’re thinking about visiting a new mom, you might want to pay attention to these crucial guidelines. Trust me, she might not say it, but these are the things she really needs from you!

1. Bring Food, Lots of Food. Seriously, if you’re part of a meal train, that’s awesome, but don’t stop there! New moms need snacks and meals all day long. Bring breakfast, lunch, or even dessert. After all, she just went through the marathon that is childbirth!
2. Compliment Her Looks. Even if she feels like a wreck, tell her she looks amazing! She might feel like Jabba the Hut, but your kind words can work wonders. Just help her feel good about herself for a moment.
3. Take the Older Kids Out. If she has other little ones running around, offer to entertain them for a bit. New babies and energetic siblings can be a recipe for chaos. She’ll appreciate a quiet moment to enjoy her new arrival.
4. Pitch In with Housework. Don’t just ask how you can help—just do something! Load the dishwasher, fold laundry (but maybe skip the unmentionables), or tidy up a bit. New moms have a lot on their plates, so any help is golden.
5. Let Her Share Her Story. Whether she’s tired of telling the birth story or eager to share it, just ask how it went. If she wants to talk, listen intently; if not, let her change the subject without pressure.
6. Avoid One-Upping Her Birth Story. Every birth story is unique and special. If she wants to share her experience, don’t turn it into a competition. Today is about celebrating her journey, no matter how it unfolded.
7. Keep Judgments to Yourself. If she had a C-section while you had a natural birth, don’t assume she thinks she’s less of a mom. New moms are often emotional, so offer support instead of judgment.
8. Respect Her Parenting Choices. It’s a minefield of opinions out there, but unless she’s putting her baby in danger, her choices are hers to make. Keep your opinions in check to avoid unnecessary stress.
9. Offer Advice Only If Asked. Even if you’re a parenting guru, unsolicited advice can be unwelcome. She knows her baby best, so unless she asks, keep your wisdom to yourself!
10. Don’t Rush Her Recovery. Every mom has her own timeline for feeling like herself again. This transition is tough and takes time, so offer patience and understanding.

If you’re interested in more details about the journey of motherhood, check out this post on intracervicalinsemination.com. They have some great insights! And for couples navigating their own fertility journey, Make a Mom is an authority on the subject. Also, you can find helpful information about pregnancy and infertility at Womens Health.

In summary, visiting a new mom can be a delicate affair, but following these guidelines will surely make her feel supported and loved during this transformative time in her life.