Hey there! So, I’ve written ten children’s books, and just when I thought my writing career was all set, I was surprised with a pregnancy at 41. Now, my little one is 20 months old, and I have to say, I never expected to be this productive while juggling motherhood. It turns out that the skills I’ve picked up from parenting have actually helped me in my writing life! Here are seven key lessons I’ve learned:
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Be Present.
The top rule in parenting is simply being there for your child. I’ve taken that same mindset and applied it to my writing. I carve out time each day after my son goes to bed to focus on my craft. If I skip those two hours, it’s like neglecting my “other baby”—and I refuse to let that happen. -
Embrace the Chaos.
I used to strive for perfection, but now I’ve accepted that my house is going to be a bit messy while my son explores the world. Just like I let him make a mess, I’ve learned to embrace the chaos of my writing process. It’s refreshing to let go of the need for everything to be tidy, whether it’s in my home or my drafts. -
Take Breaks.
Sometimes my son needs a time-out, and I’ve realized I do too when I hit a wall with my writing. Stepping away for a little while helps us both come back with fresh eyes and new ideas. -
Multitask Like a Pro.
I’ve improved my multitasking abilities, whether making grocery lists in the shower or brainstorming plot ideas while changing diapers. Some of my best story concepts pop into my head when I’m occupied with other tasks, so I’ve learned to embrace those moments. -
Build a Support System.
Just as my husband and I want our son to have diverse interactions, my writing benefits from feedback from a range of perspectives. I share my work with a writing group and trusted friends, creating a supportive community that enriches my writing process. -
Stay Positive.
I’ve learned to manage my stress levels because I know they can affect my son. This lesson has also translated to my writing; I find it much easier to create when I keep a positive outlook, rather than letting negativity get in the way. -
Tomorrow is a New Day.
Every night, I sing my son “Tomorrow” from Annie, reinforcing that each day is a fresh start. When I sit down to write after he’s asleep, I remind myself that there’s always another chance to improve, learn, and create something wonderful.
In conclusion, parenting has taught me valuable lessons that extend beyond my family life and into my writing. Each experience enriches my creativity and productivity, reminding me that both parenting and writing are journeys of growth.
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