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7 Surprising Realities of Motherhood
If I had to describe my pre-mommy self in one word, it would be “clueless.” At that time, I had a nine-month-old nephew, and while changing his diapers was a fun little challenge, handing him back to his mom when he got fussy was even better. As I prepared to start a family, I underestimated a lot, including the journey to getting pregnant. But that was just the tip of the iceberg. Here are some other surprises I encountered in motherhood…
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Understanding “Tired”
Have you ever experienced exhaustion like the first couple of years after your child arrives? Multiply that feeling by two if you have more than one kid. I don’t even think I can call it tiredness anymore—I’m basically a walking zombie! Before kids, being “tired” meant recovering from a late night out or pulling an all-nighter for school. I could bounce back with a solid night of sleep, but now? Those days are long gone. I honestly just wish I could be “tired” again. -
Owning “Nice Things”
Honestly, I’ve never really had nice things. My husband and I got married while we were still in college, and soon after, we were expecting our first child. If I wasn’t saving for a wedding or a baby, maybe I could have indulged in something nice for myself. But now that we have kids, I’ve learned that nice things are a distant memory. The few things I did splurge on have become targets for spills and messes. Maybe in ten years, I’ll get to enjoy them again. -
The Reality of Backwash
Before becoming a parent, I never thought twice about sharing a drink, even if it meant sharing a beverage with my toddler. But now, I avoid it at all costs! It’s not just about the germs; it’s the fact that they seem to have no understanding of how to sip properly. I’d rather stay thirsty than share a drink that’s been flavored with peanut butter and jelly remnants. No thank you! -
What “Lazy Days” Really Mean
Remember those days when lounging on the couch and binge-watching movies was the norm? Ah, those were the days! Now, a “lazy day” means staying home because I can’t face the chaos of taking my kids out. It’s filled with pajamas, kids running wild, and my husband and I exchanging looks that say, “Help me,” while we order pizza to deal with our exhaustion. -
The Magic of a Cardboard Box
Do I even need to elaborate on this? I cringe thinking about all those birthday gifts we received that ended up gathering dust. Cardboard boxes are the real MVPs! They can be transformed into jungle gyms, race cars, or secret forts. I used to store stuff in them before kids; what a waste of potential! They could’ve been the ultimate gifts! -
Understanding Self-Care
Before kids, I treated myself to manicures and relaxing long showers like clockwork. Now, finding time for self-care is a rare luxury. Saturdays used to be for pampering; now they’re filled with soccer practices and budgeting discussions. My husband keeps reminding me that we can’t afford my pre-baby self-care routine. I should probably try to work in some grooming, though—my husband might appreciate that! -
Redefining “Inconvenienced”
Looking back, “inconvenience” was when my class schedule conflicted with work or when I had to take a longer route somewhere. I had no idea what real inconvenience felt like until I became a mom. Now, inconvenience means dealing with healing stitches while juggling a newborn’s needs, or not eating dinner until late because my child decided my plate looked tastier than theirs. My life revolves around their demands, and I often come in last place.
In conclusion, motherhood is a wild journey filled with surprises, from the level of exhaustion to the importance of cardboard boxes. If you’re interested in more on this topic, you can check out this blog post for insights on home insemination. And for more resources, Make a Mom is a great authority on the subject. The American Society for Reproductive Medicine also offers helpful information here.