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The Toughest Part About Being a Working Mom
Being a working mom definitely has its challenges. From the judgmental looks and comments from others who think you’re not “raising” your kids properly, to the sleep deprivation that leaves you feeling like a zombie when you head back to work. There are the dreaded breast pump issues and the endless cleaning of all the gear you have to lug back and forth to the office. And let’s not even start on the overwhelming guilt.
As your little ones grow from tiny bundles into full-fledged humans, things really start to shift. You might find yourself missing those precious milestones like the first smile, first words, or first steps. And when it comes to events like school performances or Mother’s Day teas, you might not be able to make it. Balancing the roles of a dedicated professional and a loving mother is a constant juggling act, and someone inevitably ends up feeling let down—usually you.
But the absolute worst part? When your baby is sick. They reach for you, craving their mommy’s comfort, and instead, they’re left in the care of a babysitter, teacher, or family member. You can’t be there to hold them tight, and all you can do is sit at your desk, anxiously checking your phone for updates or pictures that show they’re okay.
I remember the weight of guilt I felt last week when I had to leave for work. My heart ached as our nanny took my little one, who was crying and asking to come with me. She had a high fever that made me panic, knowing her history with febrile seizures. As she curled up in bed, barely eating or playing, all I could think about was how much she needed me. It was in that moment, when her eyes filled with tears, that I wished I could just quit and focus on being a mom. Trust me, it’s no easy task—I’ve tried it and found it just as tough. But honestly, this is the hardest part about being a working mom, and it feels like it gets tougher every year.
Being a freelancer has its perks. I can often be home more than someone stuck in a 9-to-5 grind, and I can schedule work around school hours. But there are those months when you have to take on whatever work comes your way, and of course, it’s during those busy times that your kids need you the most. I owe an apology to those moms I once silently judged for being late to work because of their sick kids. I now understand the battles they faced, and they deserve all the respect.
The term “working mother” feels redundant because our kids are always on our minds, no matter where we go. Tomorrow, I’ll dive back into work, but today, I’ll cherish every moment I have with my little one. If you’re interested in learning more about home insemination, check out this post on intracervicalinsemination.com. And for those looking for a reliable resource on pregnancy, Cleveland Clinic has some great information. Or if you’re considering options for at-home insemination, Make a Mom offers an excellent selection.
Summary
Being a working mom is filled with challenges, from juggling work and family life to dealing with the guilt of not being there for your sick child. The struggle is real, but taking time to appreciate the moments with your kids makes it all worthwhile.