10 Movies That Influenced My Childhood—and Will Influence My Daughter’s Too

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Growing up in the ’80s, movies were my escape and my joy. I’ve carried that love into fatherhood, and now my 9-year-old daughter is starting to join me on the couch for movie nights. We cozy up with popcorn, scavenge for candy in my secret stash, and sip on soda (definitely winning the Father of the Year award here). As the lights go down and we hit play, I cherish those quiet moments together, even if I end up giving her a foot rub or two. I can’t help but sneak glances at her, observing the emotions that dance across her face.

During her first nine years, I didn’t have much say in our movie choices. But that changed slightly after she watched Pitch Perfect on cable. She adored it, which made her more receptive to my recommendations. We’re definitely planning to see Pitch Perfect 2 together when it hits theaters—our little secret!

If you’re a fellow Gen Xer, you know that certain films are integral to your childhood. They become a part of who you are, and you want to share that experience with your kids. But it’s tricky—there’s nothing quite like the feeling of introducing someone to a beloved movie, only to hear them say, “It was fine.” Cue the disappointment! Still, I’m determined to share my favorites with my daughter, even if a few ’90s films crept onto my list. Here are ten movies I hope to watch with her:

Movies to Enjoy Now

1. Free Willy (1993): Finding friendship in unexpected places. I was a bit embarrassed to admit I wanted to see this at first, but I loved it! A boy and a killer whale become best buddies, and the ending is sure to bring a tear to my daughter’s eye.
2. The Goonies (1985): The spirit of adventure. Can you believe this classic turns 30 this summer? It’s the ultimate popcorn flick about kids on a quest to save their neighborhood. Suddenly, I’m craving a Baby Ruth.
3. E.T. (1982): Homesickness hits hard. This film had me crying the first time I watched it. A lonely boy helps an alien find his way home, reminding us all that there’s no place like home.
4. Big (1988): The rush to grow up too fast. What kid hasn’t fantasized about adulthood? Tom Hanks’s character shows us that growing up isn’t all it’s cracked up to be.

Movies to Watch in a Few Years

5. Stand By Me (1986): It’s about the journey, not just the destination. This coming-of-age story is a heartfelt look at growing up, and it’s a reminder that it’s a tough ride for everyone.
6. The Outsiders (1983): Challenging stereotypes. This film goes beyond class differences, revealing the humanity in those often painted as villains. “Stay gold, Ponyboy.”
7. The Breakfast Club (1985): A classic for a reason. This film captures the essence of high school and identity. My guess is my daughter will see pieces of herself in each character.

Movies for Later

8. Heathers (1988): The pitfalls of popularity. This quirky cult classic opened my eyes to indie films, and it’s a hilarious reminder of teenage insecurity.
9. Fast Times at Ridgemont High (1982): The consequences of rushing into adulthood. I almost took this off the list because of some of its content, but I have a plan for when we watch it: I’ll excuse myself during the more intense scenes. It’s too iconic to skip!
10. The Silence of the Lambs (1991): A psychological thriller for when she’s older. Some may question my parenting for wanting to share this, but it’s a brilliantly executed film that’ll leave a lasting impression.

Honorable Mentions:

The Karate Kid, Coming to America, Raiders of the Lost Ark, Top Gun, Gremlins, Poltergeist, A Nightmare on Elm Street, Sixteen Candles, Raising Arizona, Aliens, Ghostbusters, Back to the Future, Ferris Bueller’s Day Off, The Shining, Bill & Ted’s Excellent Adventure.

And just to clarify, I’ve never seen Dirty Dancing.

In summary, these films have shaped my childhood, and I look forward to sharing them with my daughter as she grows. It’s all about creating memories together and hoping she finds the same joy in them that I did.