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How to Discuss God with Your Kids When You’re Not Religious
Navigating conversations about God and religion with your kids can feel tricky, especially if you don’t have strong beliefs yourself. The way you approach these topics can shape how your child views faith and spirituality. It’s important to be open and honest about your own beliefs—whatever they may be. So, before diving into those discussions, take a moment to reflect on some key questions: Do you believe in a higher power? What do you think happens after we die? Do you feel like humanity has a purpose? Are you content with your own answers?
Your responses to these questions may differ when talking to your child, and that’s okay. Often, we think we’re shielding our kids from confusion by keeping our beliefs to ourselves, but in reality, we might just be avoiding uncomfortable conversations. This can undermine the trust and bond you have with your child.
A friend of mine, Sarah, was caught off guard when her son asked, “Did God die on the cross?” She quickly corrected him, explaining that it was Jesus who died, and some people believe Jesus is God’s son. When her son pressed further about her beliefs, she hesitated, saying, “I don’t want to share my beliefs because I want you to figure it out for yourself.”
It’s crucial to understand that sharing your beliefs doesn’t mean you’re indoctrinating your child. In fact, being open about your views encourages curiosity and dialogue. It sets the stage for a home where tough topics, including faith, can be discussed respectfully.
Common Questions from Kids
Here are some potential answers to common questions from kids. Remember, these are just guides; feel free to adjust them to fit your style. Ask your child what they think and be open about your uncertainties. Keeping it brief often works best.
What is God?