What I Hope My Kids Will Cherish About Their Childhood

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As I navigate the early years of my children’s lives, I can’t help but reflect on my own childhood. Some of my fondest memories come from the ages of 5 to 7, a time filled with suburban homes, endless playdates until the streetlights flickered on, and the thrill of riding my banana-seat bike while chasing my older brother down the sidewalk.

I remember road trips to stunning places like the Grand Canyon, the comforting scent of my dad after work, and my mom’s delicious meals when she hosted friends for dinner. Those were undeniably joyous times, and while I’ve had many more happy moments since then, they often get overshadowed by tougher experiences.

Looking back, I’m intrigued by what I recall and what remains a blur. Are the hazy parts a result of trauma? Maybe, but who knows? Life throws us all unique challenges, and while we strive to shield our kids from hardship, it’s impossible to eliminate all struggles. But that won’t stop us from trying.

I want my kids to have rich, unforgettable memories. I want them to know what stability feels like, to understand love, to recognize the scent of home, and to experience the flavors of both success and disappointment. I want to give them memories they can cherish, learn from, and grow with.

Here’s what I hope they’ll carry with them:

• Remember me in the present. Picture me as the mother who ran alongside you in the fields, who cheered the loudest at your soccer games. Keep those moments close; as you grow older and need me less, those memories will ensure I’m always part of you.
• Cherish your bond with your sibling. You were each other’s first best friend and partner in crime. Remember that no one else will share your unique childhood journey, and those shared memories will help you forgive each other when needed.
• Revisit your summer days. Recall the carefree afternoons spent splashing in the pool, basking in the sun, and the thrill of diving into games of Marco Polo. Hold onto that sense of freedom whenever life feels overwhelming; it’s essential.
• Value the support of family. You belong somewhere. Your family is always there to listen and support you, whether it’s late-night talks with your cousin or the questions I answered during your school years. You were never alone; your family is a constant source of understanding and love.
• Learn from your mistakes. Whether it was a fight with your brother or a little rebellion involving my lipstick, those moments are lessons in disguise. Mistakes are a part of growing up; embrace them and use those lessons as stepping stones in life.
• Embrace the magic. Keep your imagination alive! Remember the fun adventures you had with your brother, the excitement of waiting for Santa, and all those big dreams you dared to dream. That magic is still within you—never let it fade.
• Remember my love for you. You might not fully grasp the depth of my love until you become a parent yourself, but it’s always there. Remember the hugs, the late-night stories, and the sweet whispers of “I love you.” That love is a constant in your life.
• Hold onto your childhood. It’s a once-in-a-lifetime experience. While parts may be challenging, you’ll miss the simplicity and the warmth of family togetherness. As you navigate life, remember that I’m always here to share stories and memories.

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Summary

Reflecting on my childhood, I want my kids to create vivid memories of love, family, and the magic of growing up. I hope they remember the fun times with their siblings, the warmth of family support, and the lessons learned through mistakes. Holding onto these moments will help them navigate life, and I aim to be a lasting presence in their hearts.