I can almost hear the gasps now! Who on earth misses being pregnant? Sure, there are moments of waddling around like a duck, dealing with late-night bathroom trips, and those extra pounds that sneak up on you. But here’s the thing: I don’t miss pregnancy in a “let’s do this again!” kind of way. Instead, I find myself looking back fondly at my past pregnancies now that my partner and I have decided to close the chapter on expanding our family. So, in honor of those challenging yet memorable times, here are a few perks of being pregnant that I genuinely miss:
- Comfort in Your Body: One of the best parts about being pregnant is the freedom to let it all hang out. After indulging in a few too many desserts, I could kick back without sucking in my belly. Everyone admired the baby bump, not the burrito binge behind it!
- Naptime is Sacred: I love a good nap, but I always feel a tad guilty. Not while pregnant! I embraced those midday snoozes without a second thought. If anything interrupted my sleep? Well, let’s just say there were consequences!
- The Ultimate Excuse: I made great use of my “Get Out of Jail Free” card for skipping chores, avoiding social gatherings, and even letting someone else tie my shoes. What a glorious feeling!
- Guilt-Free Indulgence: I usually stick to healthy eating, but pregnancy gave me the perfect excuse to indulge in gelato (or three). After all, I was eating for two, right? Even if that second person was the size of a lemon, they deserved just as much ice cream!
- First Kicks: There’s something incredibly special about being the first to feel your baby move. It’s a unique bond that makes you fall in love with your little one before anyone else can.
- Pampering Galore: I treated myself to prenatal massages and regular pedicures, all in the name of comfort. Those moments of relaxation were pure bliss. I might have to fake an injury just to get back to that level of self-care!
- Luscious Locks: My hair was thick, shiny, and full of life during pregnancy. I remember looking in the mirror and thinking I had just walked out of a salon. Now? Not so much.
- Winning Conversations: When conversations got petty, I could always chime in with, “I’m creating a life! What are you doing today?” Instant conversation ender, and a nice reminder of the miracle happening inside.
For those who breezed through pregnancy and enjoyed every moment, I envy you a bit. It was a wild ride filled with emotions and exhaustion, but totally worth it – even if only for the guilt-free gelato (and that adorable baby at the end)!
If you’re considering starting a family, check out this excellent resource for pregnancy and home insemination at March of Dimes. And for those curious about the specifics of at-home insemination, the Make a Mom site has some great kits to help you on your journey. You can also explore more about the process at Intracervical Insemination.
In summary, while pregnancy has its challenges, there are certainly some perks that can be fondly remembered. From the freedom to indulge to the magical moments of connection with your baby, it’s a unique experience that lingers in your heart.