Why It’s Totally Fine That My Kids (and I) Don’t Make Our Beds

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You know the saying, “the state of your bed is the state of your head”? It’s often mentioned in discussions about how making your bed can boost happiness and productivity. Well, if that’s the case, my brain might be a bit messy, and honestly, I’m perfectly okay with that.

I don’t make my kids make their beds either, even though it would be super simple. We all use duvets, so there’s no need to tuck in sheets or fold them neatly. However, I’ve decided to pick my battles wisely, and bed-making just isn’t one of them.

Let’s break down some common arguments for making your bed and why I disagree:

1. It’s Easy
   They say: You should make your bed simply because it’s a quick task that allows you to mentally plan your day.
   I say: Nah, I need a better reason. I tend to use my shower time to organize my thoughts, and my kids? They’re not exactly known for their long-term planning skills.
2. It Gives You a Sense of Accomplishment
   They say: A Naval Admiral once mentioned how making your bed first thing gives a sense of pride and sets the tone for completing other tasks.
   I say: I’ve already done a bunch by the time my kids drag themselves out of bed. I’m pretty much a rockstar in the morning, while the kids feel proud just for making it downstairs for breakfast.
3. It Reduces Clutter
   They say: A tidy room leads to less stress and more peace.
   I say: The messier rooms are the ones we actually spend time in. I focus on keeping our living spaces organized, and the kids only realize the importance of tidying up when they see how nice the living room looks afterward.
4. It Boosts Happiness and Productivity
   They say: Statistics show that bed-makers are generally happier and more productive.
   I say: I might just be part of that 38 percent who enjoys their job and doesn’t think making the bed is a good use of time! Plus, my kids are happier without the extra chore added to their mornings.
5. It Preps You for Unpleasant Tasks
   They say: Making your bed is good practice for tackling things you’d rather avoid.
   I say: Come on! They’ve got enough “not fun” tasks like brushing their teeth. I don’t need to throw in bed-making for good measure.
6. It Leads to Other Good Habits
   They say: It’s a “keystone” habit that can lead to other positive behaviors.
   I say: No one in my house is a fan of making the bed, so I’m not convinced about this whole “gateway” thing.

Interestingly, they wrap it up by mentioning the benefits of not making the bed, like keeping dust mites at bay. So, that’s our excuse as a family! Honestly, we have plenty of areas where we can improve, and if skipping this small task means a little more peace at home, I’m all for it.

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Summary

Making beds might be a common morning chore, but it’s not essential for happiness or productivity in our home. We prioritize other tasks and lessons, focusing on what truly matters and fostering a more relaxed environment.