Hey there, my lovely girls! So, let’s chat about something a little different today. You know, I was watching Mad Men the other night, and it got me thinking about a letter Betty Draper gave to her daughter, Sally. Honestly, I expected some warmth, maybe a nice sentiment to bridge their chilly relationship. Instead, Betty handed over a cold, emotionless set of instructions about her burial and what outfit to wear. I get it, though—she’s a product of her time, determined to leave this world looking fabulous.
That inspired me to reflect on a letter I penned for you both a while back. Unlike Betty, I cherish our bond and love being your mom. My husband has faced his own battles with cancer, which has kept me up at night worrying about him. But it also led me to a clear realization: I must always be here for you.
Here’s some advice I jotted down for you:
- Master the Stick Shift: Life is like a road trip. If you allow life to steer you, don’t be surprised when you end up somewhere unexpected. Take the wheel, shift gears when needed, and enjoy the ride. You might slog through the slow lanes, but when you hit that fast lane, you’ll know you earned it. Plus, there’s something incredibly empowering about a woman who can handle a car like a boss.
- Ditch the Drama: Identify those toxic people in your life—whether they’re drama queens, narcissists, or just folks who only call when they need something. It’s okay to be a giver, but not at the expense of your own well-being. Cut those negative vibes out of your life without a second thought. Remember, you don’t owe them forgiveness after a certain point.
- Choose Your Partner Wisely: Look for someone like your dad. I fell for him because he’s smart, funny, and a fantastic dad. Sure, he’s easy on the eyes too, but that’s not the main point. I kissed a few frogs along the way, but I waited for the right one. Don’t settle; you deserve someone who lifts you up.
- Embrace Your Flaws: We all have that one thing we nitpick about ourselves. For my sister, it was her freckles, which she eventually learned to love. Life’s too short to hide from what makes you unique. Own it, love it, and shine!
- You’re Not That Special: I know you’re special to me, but remember, the world is full of talented people. Don’t expect your gifts to guarantee you success. Work hard, be prepared to fail, and let yourself be inspired by others. You don’t have to be a superstar to be worthy—your value is inherent.
- Laugh Often: Life’s a wild ride, so don’t forget to laugh! Whether it’s a silly joke or a clumsy moment, embrace the joy and share it with others. The journey is fleeting, so make sure you enjoy every twist and turn. I’ll always be cheering you on.
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So, there you have it, my sweet girls! Remember, I’m always here for you, cheering you on every step of the way.
Summary
The author reflects on the importance of strong, positive parenting by sharing a heartfelt letter filled with life lessons for her daughters. She emphasizes empowerment, self-love, and the significance of surrounding oneself with positive influences while keeping humor alive in the journey of life.