Why Is the Discussion Around Caitlyn Jenner Focused on Beauty?

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So, Caitlyn Jenner has made headlines, and it seems like the conversation is all about her looks. After feeling like a woman all her life, her first big reveal to the world is a glamorous magazine cover shoot. Now, don’t get me wrong—I’m not here to belittle her journey. I can’t even begin to imagine what it’s like to navigate life in a body that feels mismatched to your identity, and I truly empathize with those who face similar struggles. But in a world where everyday women like us constantly fight against unrealistic beauty standards projected by media, it’s disheartening to see her debut centered around such a polished image.

While many celebrate her courage for coming out, echoed by someone like Mia Thompson in a recent blog, there’s this overwhelming emphasis on how stunning she looks, as if that’s the defining factor of her womanhood. If she’s genuinely seeking authenticity, I doubt it’s found in a magazine spread.

I mean, the glitz, the glam, the perfect lighting, and even the renowned photographer’s touch—those elements don’t paint an honest picture of who Caitlyn is. Yes, we all know great photography can capture a person’s essence, but this particular image seems to reinforce an unattainable ideal. It feels more like a performance than a true representation.

Let’s be real: I’ve never worn fancy corsets or high heels, and I feel 100% like a woman. I live in jeans and sneakers, and I don’t wear makeup, but that doesn’t make me any less of a woman. We all have our own styles and definitions of femininity. Most women, especially those who aren’t in the spotlight, don’t get to look picture-perfect all the time. We wear what’s practical for our lives—clothes that fit our day-to-day activities. And I think many in the transgender community are looking for a genuine existence that reflects who they truly are, likely found in the simplicity of everyday life—like a comfy T-shirt and shorts. Being a woman goes way beyond looks.

This article originally appeared on June 3, 2015.

In summary, the conversation surrounding Caitlyn Jenner often leans heavily on beauty, overshadowing the deeper aspects of her journey. While her courage is commendable, the emphasis on her glamorous portrayal risks perpetuating unrealistic standards that many women, especially those not in the public eye, cannot relate to. Authenticity in womanhood is about much more than appearances; it’s about being true to oneself in everyday life.