The 5 Kinds of Tired Every Mom Can Relate To

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Let’s be real: being a mom often feels like a never-ending state of exhaustion. Sure, there are a few fleeting moments of energy—maybe around lunchtime—but those are few and far between. When your little one is born, it’s like they have a special talent for waking up every few minutes, making you wonder when the sleepless nights will end. You think you’re in the clear when they start sleeping for longer stretches, but then come the teething pains, growth spurts, random sleep regressions, and those pesky developmental milestones that keep them up at night, eager to build their tallest block tower yet. Exhaustion is just part of the gig! Here’s a rundown of the various types of tiredness that moms like us know all too well. Grab a coffee (or a few) and see if you recognize any of these.

1. The Too Anxious to Sleep Tired: This is the kind of tired that keeps you tossing and turning. You’re so frazzled trying to keep your kids entertained that when you finally crawl into bed, sleep evades you. You may find yourself wondering how your daughter managed to turn the living room into a pillow fort while you lay there, wide awake, even when your eyes feel like lead weights. Don’t blame yourself; it’s just the exhaustion kicking in.
2. The Newborn Foal Tired: Remember those Discovery Channel shows where newborn animals can’t quite find their feet? That’s you, but with coffee. You know you’re in this zone when you accidentally drop your mug or trip over your own feet while trying to get up from the couch. It’s not you; it’s just that you’re completely wiped out.
3. The Excessively Nodding Off Tired: You’ve had those days where you catch yourself dozing off on the couch, only to jolt awake at the sound of your kids getting into mischief. You find yourself nodding off while trying to discipline them for climbing the pantry shelves, and again when you’re just trying to get a minute alone in the bathroom. It’s okay; it’s simply because you are so tired.
4. The Coffee Doesn’t Touch Me Tired: Coffee is supposed to be our lifesaver, right? Especially at 4 a.m. when your kids are ready to rise and shine. But there are days when no amount of caffeine can shake off the fatigue. You keep sipping, but your body feels like it could fall asleep at any moment. It’s not your fault; it’s just the overwhelming tiredness that comes with motherhood.
5. The I’m A Mom Tired: This is the tired that starts the moment your baby arrives and, according to my friend Jenna, never really goes away. It’s a deep-seated exhaustion that becomes part of your identity. Sure, there are times when you feel energized, but that nagging tiredness lurks in the background, ready to take over just when you think you can finally catch up on chores. Don’t worry about the mess or skipping a shower; it’s just a sign of how tired you really are.

So there you have it—a little glimpse into the various shades of tiredness that come with the parenting territory. If you’re feeling any of these, remember you’re not alone!

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Summary

This article explores the five unique types of tiredness that every mom experiences, from sleepless nights to the perpetual exhaustion that feels like a part of motherhood. By recognizing these different kinds of tired, moms can find solidarity in their struggles and know they’re not alone.