Hey Friends Without Kids

I used to be in your shoes—living life on my own terms without a baby schedule to follow. Sometimes I find myself longing for those carefree days. I admit, I feel a twinge of jealousy when I see you enjoying the freedom I used to have. Our friendship may have shifted since I became a mom, but I want to share a few things with you:

It Won’t Last Forever

First off, I promise this hectic pace won’t last forever. One day, my little one will grow up, and I’ll have more time to socialize. I might not be able to hang out as much as I used to, but I’ll definitely make an effort to see you whenever I can.

Exhaustion is Temporary

I also won’t be this exhausted forever. I often forget things you tell me, and I feel bad about it. It’s not that I don’t care—my memory is just shot right now! I’ve even called my eyelids “eye covers” because I’m so tired. Once I finally catch up on sleep, I can’t wait to be more engaged, with better memory and wit.

I Want to See You!

I genuinely want to see you! I’m sorry I can’t make it to wing night every week or say yes as often as I’d like. I wish I could join you for shopping trips or movies, but it’s just not feasible right now. Every time I do say yes, it means a lot to me, as being a single mom comes with its own set of challenges, including guilt about leaving my baby with my parents too often.

So please keep inviting me. I love knowing that you still want me around, even if I can’t always join. And every now and then, I’ll surprise us both and say yes, so we can catch up and share some laughs.

Missing Our Time Together

I miss you all so much. I miss our spontaneous drives, gym sessions, late-night wine fests, and those epic cookie-baking days. I miss your smiling faces and the frequent hangouts we used to have.

Gratitude for Your Support

You were my support during my pregnancy, and I’ll always be grateful. You put up with my mood swings, took me out for ice cream, and helped me pick out baby gear. You listened to my worries and fears, offering your kindness and support when I needed it most.

To My Wonderful Friends

To my wonderful friends, know that I cherish you and will always love you. Life might be a bit more complicated now, but you’re still in my thoughts, and I consider you my closest friends. And to my pals who had kids before me: your guidance has been invaluable, and I couldn’t have navigated this journey without your help.

I love you all and miss you immensely. One day, I’ll treat you to a round (or several) of wine when I’m not knee-deep in spit-up or running on just three hours of sleep!

Xoxo,
Lily

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Summary

: This heartfelt letter expresses the feelings of a new mom reflecting on her relationships with childless friends. It acknowledges the changes that motherhood brings while emphasizing the importance of friendship and support. The writer reassures her friends of her love and commitment to maintaining those connections, despite her busy schedule.