8 Reasons I’m Way Cooler Now Than I Was a Decade Ago

Hey there! So here I am in my mid-40s, and I’ve come to realize that “cool” is pretty subjective, right? Just the other day, while I was reorganizing my silverware drawer (stay with me; I promise this gets better), I caught myself belting out an alt-rock song that’s been stuck in my head. Yep, I know all the lyrics. So, how exactly am I cooler now than I was 10 years ago? Let’s dive into it!

1. I Can Sing Every Panic! At the Disco Song.

Ten years back, my playlist was dominated by kids’ tunes. I think my coolest jam was something by The Laurie Berkner Band. Sure, I still have a soft spot for Victor Vito, but having teens means I can rock out to music that doesn’t involve dinosaurs or trains.

2. I’ve Mastered the Art of Not Overdressing.

In my 30s, I faced some serious fashion dilemmas—what’s appropriate for someone my age? But now? My daughters are my fashion police, letting me know what’s on point and what’s a definite no-go. Seriously, how do moms without teenage daughters manage to leave the house looking decent?

3. Dangly Earrings Are Back in My Life.

I’ve always had a thing for big earrings, a nod to my ’80s roots, but I had to put them away when my kids were little. Now? I can flaunt my love for bling without worrying about little hands yanking them off. My girls help keep my style in check, too!

4. I’m All About ‘The Big Bang Theory’ and ‘Mad Men’ Binge-Watching.

Forget kids’ shows; I’m diving into adult TV! I even attempted to watch Game of Thrones once but had to stop due to my under-15 crowd. It’s refreshing not to be stuck in the land of Phineas and Ferb anymore.

5. My Bras Are Simpler Now.

Gone are the days of nursing bras with flaps. Now, if I want to take it off, I just do it—no more worrying about spills!

6. Spit-Up-Free Clothes!

Yessss! I can finally wear my favorite outfits without worrying about stains from little ones.

7. I Read Real Books.

With all the time I spend waiting in the car for school pickups and practices, I’ve turned into a reading machine. The bestsellers are my go-to now, and yes, they come without pictures!

8. My Favorite Styles Are Back in Fashion.

High-waisted pants? Check. Leggings? Totally! Off-the-shoulder tops? You bet! Fashion is a cyclical beast, and I’m here for it.

So yes, I’m definitely cooler than I was a decade ago. Honestly, I believe I was cooler in my 30s than in my 20s, too. And considering my fun tan and big hair back in my teenage days? That was just practice for what’s to come. Like fine wine, I’m getting better with age. Who knows what the next ten years will bring?

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Summary:

Reflecting on how much cooler I am now compared to a decade ago, I’ve embraced my love for music, fashion, and binge-worthy shows while leaving behind the struggles of parenting little ones. From reading bestsellers during carpool to enjoying the return of nostalgic fashion, I’m truly living my best life.