7 Reasons Ovulation Can Be Tough as a Mom

As I’ve aged, ovulation has become one of those moments I dread each month. Sure, PMS makes me grumpy, but ovulation is a strong contender for the worst. Maybe it’s because I can’t take the time to channel my inner fertility goddess, or perhaps my aging body is just overwhelmed by the hormone surge. Whichever it is, I turn into a bloated, moody, and nauseous whirlwind right in the middle of my cycle. Toss in a full moon, lack of sleep, and a chocolate-free house, and you’d probably want to steer clear of me (unless you’re my husband, who seems to think I’m irresistible). Here’s what I experience when my eggs are ready to roll.

1. Mood Swings Galore

One moment, I’m showering my kids with love, convinced they’re the sweetest beings on the planet. The next, I’m overwhelmed and on the verge of tears or snapping at anyone who crosses my path. This emotional rollercoaster is intense, and it’s like I’ve bottled up all my feelings until they burst out in an explosion of crankiness or tears.

2. Energy Overload

With the surge in hormones comes an unexpected burst of energy. I suddenly want to tackle everything from decluttering the garage to planting those pesky spring flowers. But let’s be real—I can hardly get through putting away groceries without being interrupted. Seriously, why did I think reorganizing the pantry was a good idea? That ovulation energy can just take a hike.

3. Nausea Hits

You know how some women talk about feeling queasy during ovulation? Well, let me tell you, it’s real! I often find myself battling stomach issues and migraines that make me feel like I’m in a fog. Sometimes, the migraines come with visual disturbances, adding to the seasick feeling. Yay, just what I needed!

4. Bloating Trouble

As my egg preps for release, my belly decides to join in on the fun by expanding like I’m already four months pregnant. This makes closing my pants impossible and sitting down uncomfortable. How am I supposed to feel sexy and confident when I’m constantly adjusting my waistband?

5. Hello, Mittelschmerz

This is the fancy German term for the sharp pain some women feel during ovulation. It’s not always a regular visitor, but when it shows up, it can be pretty intense. Combine that with the usual nausea and bloating, and I’m left curled up with a heating pad, wishing for this phase to pass.

6. Baby Fever Alert

Ovulation can stir up all sorts of emotions regarding pregnancy. Some women welcome the idea of another child, while others are firmly done. It’s confusing! I often find myself reassessing my feelings about having more kids, especially when I see a cute baby or hear a friend’s baby news. If you’re ovulating, don’t go visiting that friend with the newborn unless you’re ready for some serious cravings.

7. Desire vs. Reality

During ovulation, I find myself daydreaming about romantic evenings with my husband, even sending him flirty texts. But when he comes home, chaos ensues. Between the kids’ demands and the nightly routine, I often find myself too exhausted to act on those desires. By the time the kids are finally asleep, I’m either out cold or raiding the fridge for snacks I missed throughout the day.

So there you have it. I know I’m fortunate that my body goes through this monthly cycle of creating life, but I wish it came with a little less drama. And let’s be honest, having the time to enjoy the whole process—especially the fun parts—would be a nice change of pace.

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Summary

Ovulation can be a challenging time for moms, bringing mood swings, energy highs, nausea, and a whole lot of bloating. While the body is doing amazing things, the emotional and physical toll can be overwhelming. Understanding these changes can help make the process a little more manageable.