Dear Future Daughter

Hey there, my future daughter!

I figured it was about time to jot down some advice for you. Even though you’re not here yet, I often find myself thinking about you. So, in case you do decide to grace the world with your presence, here are some nuggets of wisdom to help you on your journey!

Embrace Literature and Self-Care

First off, dive into some great literature—start with “A Tree Grows In Brooklyn.” And don’t forget to treat yourself! Take yourself on solo dates and find hobbies that are uniquely yours. Be fearless in your pursuits, and remember, holding hands can be more intimate than it seems.

Share Your Passions

Share your love for good books and music; don’t keep them to yourself. Venture out to a concert for a band you’ve never heard of—experiences like that are priceless. Fall in love often, but be cautious with your heart; life is all about contrasts, so embrace being a beautiful contradiction.

Practical Tips for Life

Find a bra that fits well (it makes a difference!). Avoid driving by someone’s house obsessively—trust me on that one. Discover something about yourself that you absolutely adore, and just remember, nothing fixes a bad day quite like a good road trip.

Oh, and here’s a tip my grandma passed down: flip cards with the barcode facing out for easier scanning at the store! Trust is essential, find it in people and learn to say “no” when you need to.

Life Choices and Self-Discovery

Skip the cats—seriously. Find a lipstick that speaks to your soul, and figure out your perfect nap situation. Remember, only you can tell your own story, so make it a good one. You’re always going to be more beautiful than you think, and trust me, you’ll run into your ex more than once.

Take the time to write letters, and remember that patience is key; Grandma Louise taught me that. You might want to have a friend who travels well with you, and love your scars—they’re proof of your journey.

Relationships and Health

Don’t text him again if things don’t go well. Also, fully dry your hair before heading out; it’s a small detail that goes a long way! When it comes to doctors, you’ll definitely want a female gynecologist.

Travel and Friendships

If you travel abroad, learn some basic phrases: “Where’s the bathroom?” “How much?” “That’s too much” and “Don’t touch me!” Not every friendship is meant to last, and understanding that will make things easier.

Embrace Love and Life

Love is messy and chaotic—embrace it! Make sure you send your kids to camp, and always bend with your knees when lifting heavy things. Treat yourself to tulips, and place a penny in the vase for better support.

And seriously, have a go-to movie to fall asleep to, and wax and polish both your car and your body. Always, always have an exit plan and a staircase to cry on when things get tough.

Connections Matter

Treasure the smiles on the phone, gather friends and stories—it’s all about those connections.

And for the love of all that is good, if you find yourself cruising by his house, do it at night, lights off, windows rolled up, and the radio off. Duck down, just in case.

Sending love your way,

Mom.

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