Absolutely, a Mom of Three Can Rock a Bikini!

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Last summer, as the warm weather rolled in, I was pleasantly surprised to find a Victoria’s Secret swimsuit catalog in my mailbox. I was puzzled about how my name ended up on that list, considering I typically stick to my comfy Hanes. Flipping through the catalog, I couldn’t help but dream about wearing a bikini—a bubblegum pink one with those cute ’70s side strings. I envisioned those ties resting on smooth, tanned legs and a long, lean torso.

But here’s the kicker: aside from a few distant memories, I had never worn a bikini. For years, I believed that if I couldn’t pull it off perfectly, I shouldn’t bother. So, I opted for swim dresses and cover-ups instead. In fact, I even managed to avoid wearing a swimsuit for an entire summer—twice! With my aversion to water, be it pool or ocean, it was easier than you’d think to skip the bathing suit.

Then I spotted a pink and green string bikini on page 29 of that catalog. Something shifted inside me. Did I really think I could wear this now? Almost 45 with three kids and a stretch-marked belly—was I kidding myself? Logic said no, but a sense of urgency took over. This might be my last chance to wear something like that before middle age really hit!

Before I knew it, I had ordered the bikini. When it arrived, I was thrilled—until it was time to wear it out in public. I kept telling myself, now or never as I looked at my floral swim dress. With a mix of excitement and anxiety, I put on the bikini along with a cover-up I planned to keep on. But once I arrived at the beach and saw all the bodies around me, I felt a surge of confidence. I was a woman over 40, tired of hiding behind a distorted self-image.

I didn’t exactly throw off my cover-up and prance around, but I did lounge on a chair, feeling both proud and terrified. By my next beach trip, I even stood up and walked near the water! I wore that bikini all summer, and guess what? I just ordered a new one in blue.

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Embracing Our Bodies

In summary, embracing our bodies and stepping out of our comfort zones can lead to newfound confidence. It’s never too late to try something new, whether that’s wearing a bikini or exploring other aspects of motherhood.